Myke's Tennis

He's Back

2012-02-05T06:23:00.002-06:00

Phil has made it to the other side of his 8 month recovery from rotator cuff surgery. Today he won his first tournament back, playing a Category II national doubles event in Sarasota with partner Tom Smith. He actually played two events, 55's and 60's doubles, playing with Hugh Thompson in the 55's and Tom in the 60's. I was concerned about him playing two events in his first tournament back, which meant two matches a day over the course of three or four days. Phil thought match play was important, so he went for it. He and Hugh lost in the semi's of the 55's in a tough three setter, but Tom and Phil continued their dominance as a great doubles team, and won the finals 6-2, 6-1. Aside from "general soreness", Phil feels surprisingly good, with no shoulder issues at all. Praise God!

Now we turn our sights on Palm Springs and the National Husband/Wife Grass courts coming up in early March. We can't wait!

Better Finish

2012-01-23T14:15:00.002-06:00

I had resolved to leave my negativity behind from Saturday's match, and look ahead to Sunday's playoff match with a better mindset. After waiting around all day for the singles matches to be played, then waiting for Mary and Trish to play their 40's doubles final, I was ready to play. We were the last match of the tournament to go on, and there were only a handful of spectators around...mostly tournament refs and a few club members. From the first game of the match I stayed focused, played within myself and kept my feet moving. What a difference. The team we played was a good team, but Mary and I played extremely well individually and as a team. We won 6-2, 6-3. My serve and return of serve were much improved. I take away a little something different from every match and overall tournament experience. I think I'm getting closer to wanting to do what it takes to get back successfully on the singles court. I love doubles, but I also like playing singles and competing one on one. After our work season quiets down in another 10-12 weeks, I'll get serious about singles. Until then, I'll continue to improve on my doubles game, with my sights set on the Husband/Wife Grass court nationals in Palm Springs in March.

I don't want to just do good!

Going Backwards

2012-01-21T20:16:00.001-06:00

I knew today's match was going to be a tough one. Sue and Sue (Bartlett and Webb) are strong enough, and certainly didn't need me to give them all kinds of free points with double faults, crappy returns, wild volleys and missed overheads....but I obliged. Mary and I lost 6-3, 6-3. It seemed like whenever we would pick up steam and get on a roll, we'd self destruct with bad errors. So frustrating and so disappointing. Tomorrow is a playoff for 3rd and 4th. Hoping for a better day.

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Another Win

2012-01-20T19:40:00.001-06:00

Today was pretty much a carbon copy of yesterday. Slept in, late breakfast, off to the courts to watch matches, warmed up with Mary, then played. We won our match today 6-1, 6-1. It was another beautiful day, and fortunately it wasn't as windy. I felt like I played well and definitely returned serve better than yesterday. Our semi final match tomorrow will be very tough. They are a seasoned team that have played together for a long time. We'll have to bring our A game, but it is a very winnable match. Our match isn't until 4:00 tomorrow afternoon. Looks like another leisurely day hanging out at the courts.

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One Down

2012-01-19T20:11:00.001-06:00

Although I miss playing singles, I'm kind of enjoying the life of just playing doubles at these tournaments. You get to sleep in (doubles usually play in the afternoon), hang out during the day, watch some matches, then warm up and play. So that was basically my day today. It was a very breezy, bright sunny day. Mary and I played well and won love and love in our first round. We play tomorrow around 3:00, ...looks like the same routine for tomorrow. I think I could get used to this!

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Back at Ballen

2012-01-18T21:14:00.001-06:00

It seems like I blinked and three months passed by. It was three months ago that I was in West Palm Beach to play the national clay courts, and here I am again. This time I'm here to play a category II national at Ballenisles. I'm only playing doubles, as I haven't found the time or energy to work on singles. Phil and I both decided we would just play doubles through the winter, and later in the spring start working on our singles. I'm playing this tournament with Mary Dailey. We haven't played together in a few years, but I think we'll make a good team. I made the 2 hour drive over this afternoon after work. Our first match is tomorrow at 3:00.

Phil is gearing up for his first tournament back, post shoulder surgery. He'll be playing in Sarasota in a couple of weeks, with partner Tom Smith. He is hitting the ball very well, but he feels like his serve isn't quite there yet. He's doing great, and I'm proud of how he stayed positive through the last 6 months. By the time we go to Palm Springs for the National Husband/Wife in early March, he'll be stronger than ever. I'm really looking forward to playing with my husband!

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It's Official!

2011-12-18T08:18:00.001-06:00

Phil and I finally tied the knot!

Before we had been offered our positions in Naples, we had hoped to get married in Destin in October. Once we made the decision to move to Naples, everything was happening so fast and furiously, that getting married sort of got pushed back to the end of the 'to do" list.

Instead of trying to find the right date that fits into our family and friend's schedules, we opted for the simplest option....a visit to the Collier County Courthouse!

Last Monday, December 12, started out like any other Monday, a couple of lessons, a couple of clinics. Plus we had a big demo day event scheduled on Tuesday that needed some final touches. Our appointment at the courthouse was for 4:00. At 1:00 we had to run over to Spanish Wells to check on a malfunctioning sprinkler head. Never during the day was I nervous or frazzled. Once we got everything in working order, we ran home, showered, put on our best blue jeans, and away we went to get married! We were in and out of there in about 10 minutes....that 10 minutes included the ceremony and waiting for the certified copy of the marriage license. It was great! Phil and I were married, and so happy! It was a warm, beautiful, sunny afternoon so off we went to sit outside at Bravo, one of our favorite places to eat to enjoy our first pizza as a married couple. For us it could not have been a more perfect day! We plan to have a weekend celebration with our family and friends later in the spring.

It seems like the time in Naples has been flying by. Our days have been filled with teaching, organizing, getting to know our members, and just enjoying our new life. Never have I felt so completely happy and comfortable in my own skin. I have truly been blessed with a wonderful life and I have the most compassionate, caring, loving and wonderful husband to share the journey with!

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Third Place

2011-11-22T18:41:00.002-06:00

Since returning from Boca on Sunday night, the past two days have been a blur. The team finished strong in our playoff match with Texas. We decided, as a team, that we would shake up our line up. We kept Rita and Julie at one and two, and I made my singles debut at number three. Rita lost a tough match to top ranked Shelly Works, while Julie beat Kathy Vick. I fought hard, and actually played very well, and won against Vicki Buholtz, 6-4, 6-4. We went into doubles up 2-1. Mary and Kim played and lost at number one, and our surprise duo of Julie and Susan pulled out a win for team Florida at the number two position. They played great, and it was a true team effort making that win happen. So much fun! I've been pretty sore the last day or so from playing singles, but it sure felt good to back on the singles court.

Phil got great news from the doctor about his shoulder. After 6 months from the injury and 5 months from surgery, he's gotten the release to start hitting again. We'd been hitting lightly for the past few days, but knowing he is officially through all the PT and made it through to the end, is a big relief. Our mantra from the beginning has been, "one day closer to being back on the court"....."one day" is finally here!

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Giving it Our All

2011-11-19T19:53:00.001-06:00

The rain from yesterday passed and left us with sunny skies and warm temperatures. It also left us with very windy playing conditions. Rita lost a hard fought three setter at number one, while Julie won a hard fought three setter in the number two spot. At third singles, Kim lost to Diane Fishburne. So going into doubles we were down 2-1 in matches and needed to win both doubles to pull off the upset of beating Southerns. On paper we thought we had a fighting chance, but as it turns out Southerns doubles teams were just too good. Susie and I lost, as did Mary and Rita. Now we'll play Texas in a playoff for third and fourth. Looks like I'm going to get back on the singles court. I'll be playing number three singles. I'm ready to try, and see how I can do. I have a relaxed focus in thinking about playing tomorrow. I'll do my best.

Go Team Florida!

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End of a Long Day

2011-11-18T19:31:00.001-06:00

The misty, windy weather was persistent today. All the 8:00 a.m matches were backed up all morning waiting for the weather to break. Our match with Midwest finally went on at 2:00, and all three Florida girls played well, and swept the singles. Doubles went on under the lights, with Susie Brown and I winning our match, and Rita and Susan winning theirs. A good win and warmup for our match with number one seeded Southern tomorrow. We'll all have to be at our very best to do well, but we're up for the challenge. I just hope the rain and wind go away....it sure makes for a long day when you have to hurry up and wait!

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Rain Delay Friday

2011-11-18T07:58:00.001-06:00

We were off yesterday with a bye. I scouted the two teams who we play the winner of (Midwest) and was able to hit with teammates Susie Brown, then later with Kim Cashman. It was very warm yesterday, highs in the upper 80's. Today we woke up to a front moving through, with misty,rainy windy conditions. Our 8:00 start time has been backed up to 10:00. Looks like the skies are clearing, and hopefully we'll be able to get the singles matches started in the next hour or so.

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Intersectionals in Boca

2011-11-16T21:29:00.001-06:00

I drove over today from Naples to Boca Raton to attend the captains meeting for the Florida 45's Intersectional team. Mary Dailey and I are co-captains of the team. We are seeded third out of the 13 USTA sections that are being represented. We have a bye tomorrow, and play the winner of Midwest and Middle States. I'm only planning to play doubles. We have some really good younger players playing singles. This event is one of the biggest senior women's tournaments in the country. It's fun to be back playing and hanging out with all my tennis friends.

I'll watch some of matches tomorrow, get a good practice in with my teammates, and enjoy the day.

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All's Well That Ends Well

2011-11-01T18:28:00.002-05:00

Well, I never really got to blog again after our rain out on Saturday. Fran did get to play her singles, but we never resumed our doubles that we had started on Friday. Just as we were going to play on Saturday afternoon, the rains came...again. The opposing team said they weren't staying to play, so we moved on to the semis to be played on Sunday after Fran's singles. She lost a tough final to Diane Fishburne in three sets. We started our doubles match knowing that Fran had a flight to catch in Ft. Lauderdale and needed to be gone by 3:30. We played very well against Erin Boynton and Abbi Neuthaler and won 6-3, 6-3. Our opponents for the back draw final were there and ready to play, but we knew we couldn't play and have Fran make her flight, so we recorded the score as a win for Erin and Abbi, so they could stay and play the final. I felt good about the way I finished. I still have a lot to work on, but compared to how I started the week, I was happy with the final day.

My next event will be playing on the Florida team at the Intersectionals being held in Boca Raton in about three weeks. I will be playing on the 45's team with six other top Florida players. I may attempt singles if needed, but more than likely will only play doubles.

Phil and I both have a lot of work to do to get ourselves ready for the upcoming year. We are both determined and ready to put in the time and effort it takes to play at the highest level we can. It's what we do.

Waiting Out the Rain

2011-10-29T06:59:00.001-05:00

Yesterday started rainy, briefly stopped so the singles could get played, then started up again before we could finish our back draw doubles match. Fran won her singles easily. We were up in our doubles match 6-1, 1-0 before the bottom fell out and the matches were called for the day. I have to admit that I played much better. The rain is still falling this morning and forecast to continue throughout the day. I told Fran that her main draw singles is the most important thing, and if the matches get too backed up, we'd bail on the doubles.

We'll head over to the courts soon to see what the plan is.

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When You're Bad You're Bad

2011-10-27T19:59:00.001-05:00

I was apprehensive from the beginning about playing this week. Wondering if I was ready to be playing a national tournament. I knew I needed to start somewhere. My heart did just fine and my slight calf strain held up too. In fact, I wish I could find something to blame for the way I played today. Basically I stunk up the court. Fran and I won the first set 6-4, and were up a break, 4-2 and 40-love, in the second. Some how we(I) found a way to lose the set 7-5. We went down 0-3 in the third, came back, then lost the set and match 7-5 in the third. Nothing I hit felt solid. My returns were terrible, my serve was mediocre at best. Not to mention my double fault on match point. ARRGGGHHH. I am so frustrated. I know I haven't been in a tournament match play situation in a long time, but can I really be that bad?

We do play a back draw match tomorrow afternoon. I need to somehow put this day behind me and get a more positive mindset. Back to the drawing board.

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Back in Action

2011-10-24T18:16:00.002-05:00

I know it's been a while, but now it's time to get back in action. We're getting settled in to a routine at work with each passing day. I've also met some very nice girls, who are really good players that I've been able to practice with. In Destin a majority of my workouts were with the guys, which was great, but it's wonderful to be able to hit with girls my age, who are good players. I had my friends Mary Dailey and Fran Chandler down last weekend and they along with myself and five other local girls had a fun weekend of tennis. We knew coming here would increase our pool of players and give both Phil and I an opportunity to play with a variety of players. I've already been invited to play in an exhibition in November and a pro challenge event in mid November. Plus I'll be on the Florida Intersectional team playing in Boca Raton in later November. Lots going on!

I'm playing this coming weekend in West Palm Beach at the National 50 Clay Courts. Between my heart, the move and starting the new job, I haven't had the opportunity to play much singles, so I've decided to just play doubles this weekend with Fran. It feels a little awkward to only be playing doubles, but it'll be fun seeing all the girls and hanging out for the weekend. I've posted the links to the draws to the right of this post.

Phil is only 4 weeks away from hitting. He has gone strictly by the book in his rehab process, and has followed doctor's orders to the T. I'm proud of his attitude and how he's handled himself through this setback. As we've said from the beginning, a shoulder is fixable. We have friends who are fighting for their lives with life threatening illnesses. I know it's been tough for him, but he will be back better than ever. We're really looking forward to getting back to our on court workouts, and fully intend to be playing mixed doubles together next year in some husband/wife events. We just need to take care of one minor detail for that to happen....... :-)

I will post results from the tournament this weekend, and try to do better updating in the future.

We're Here

2011-09-03T12:39:00.002-05:00

We've been in Naples for about 12 days, and with every passing day, I know we're exactly where we're supposed to be. Everything feels right. We've been living in Phil's nephews house until we can move into our own on Tuesday. So far we have met some very nice people, mostly members of the club, and they have made us feel welcomed. I was not so naive coming into this position to not realize the difference between being a club pro and a resort pro. I was well aware of the pros and cons. However, at Tarpon Cove it is a not a regular club situation. This will be just like our winter season at Hidden Dunes. Very busy from November to April, then a huge drop in activity as everyone migrates back home for the summer. We are looking forward to meeting and getting to know everyone as they come in. We have scheduled the court work at Spanish Wells to begin in October and will have that program going by early November.

Naples itself is a wonderful place to live...so far. We've found an abundance of great shopping, restuarants, and the beach is nice (hardly the pristine white sands of Destin), but the sun sets over the water nightly and is beautiful, we've had fun exploring and learning all the ins and outs.

Everyday is a new adventure in so many ways. I love waking up everyday to see what lies ahead.

The Day Before

2011-08-21T09:11:00.003-05:00

Two and a half weeks have flown by since I last posted. I had my last day of work at Hidden Dunes on the 10th, then Phil and I flew to Naples that night to begin our search for a place to live. We were successful with that venture, finding a very nice 4 bedroom, 3 bath home to rent for a year. It is close to work and a near shopping, movies, etc...we love the location and happy we were able to do it quickly. Coordinating the move has been a little tricky. There are tenants in our new home until September 1. We are moving tomorrow, August 22. Our movers are taking our stuff to a warehouse at one of our clubs, Spanish Wells, to store it until we have another moving company, from Naples, pick up our stuff at the warehouse and move it in our new home on September 6. We will stay in David's house (Phil's nephew) during the interim. Moving twice within a move is not my idea of fun, but it was the most logical way to get us out of here and down there to get going. I feel like time is wasting just hanging around here.

We have had several fun outings in the past couple of weeks, saying our goodbyes. Hidden Dunes had a nice farewell lunch with all the employees for me. I wish I could take Tip and James with me! Then some of Phil's guys that he worked with in clinics and lessons had a nice gathering at Ocean Club, then on Thursday our Hidden Dunes friends had a nice happy hour at Carrabas. It's very hard to leave the relationships behind. These are friends that will always be here for us, and I know we will be seeing them again, either here or in their travels to our new area.

Phil and I are both anxious to get back into a routine of working, playing and living. It seems like the past month has been so topsy turvy with packing and eating out (all the kitchen stuff packed) and we both feel a little out of sorts. I know that is to be expected, and its only temporary, but it sure makes you appreciate your life when you have a normal routine going.

Phil has continued with his physical therapy here and already has an appointment with a new therapist for next Friday in Naples. It is so important for him to continue on with therapy. He has made great strides the past couple of weeks with his range of motion and strength. I'm feeling great with no signs of flutters or afib.

I must say again, (and again, and again) thank you to all who have called and emailed your thoughts of appreciation, love and support. It means more to me than you'll ever know. I will continue to keep you posted on the goings on in Naples and in how Phil and I are doing in our new lives.

Under a Week

2011-08-04T07:10:00.005-05:00

The days seem to be flying by, filled with "gotta do this, gotta do that" stuff. We've had doctor's appointments, hair cuts, meeting with moving companies, and let's not forget the MOVING SALE! Seems like so much to do, in so little time. Next Wednesday is our last day at Hidden Dunes, then that evening we are flying to Naples to look for a place to live. We return on Saturday, then will be packing up and moving out that following week.

Fortunately, we were able to rent my house in less than 2 days. The renters have a signed a year's lease. Given the state of the real estate market, which is improving, we decided that renting my house was a better option than trying to sell right now. A family relocating to this area from Atlanta will be moving in on September 1. Wanting to move as little "stuff" as possible, we went through the house and did a thorough sweep of things and had a moving sale last Saturday. It was hard work, and very hot, but very profitable, so in the end it was worth it. Goodwill got the leftovers. Now we're down to basic furniture pieces, along with some kitchen stuff and a few other knick knacks that I couldn't bear to part with. All the lawn equipment is sold, and thankfully, I didn't cave to Phil wanting a riding mower. Otherwise he'd be riding that thing down to Naples, with his car in tow. We are finding that moving companies are very expensive, but I have convinced Phil of two things.... 1) with his shoulder in a sling, and not able to lift, we are not even thinking of trying to "do it ourselves" with a U-Haul, and 2) there are some things you just have to pay others to do, and this is one of them.

We have received innumerable emails and phone calls from so many people expressing their sadness to see us going, but wishing us the best on our new endeavor. The further away I get from having made the decision to leave Hidden Dunes and the closer it gets to actually leaving and moving to Naples, the more sure I am that I have made the right decision. It is time to take on new challenges, meet new people, and for Phil and I to build a life together. We are looking forward to a life filled with love, laughter and happiness and the daily gift of joy that God will provide for us.

Thanks to everyone for your continued love and support.

The Time Has Come

2011-07-25T05:30:00.003-05:00

First of all, I apologize for having not posted for such a long time. The sudden turn of events in my life the last 12 days have had me in a tailspin....so here goes...

After much soul searching and praying, Phil and I have decided to accept an offer of a position for the two of us as Directors of Tennis at Tarpon Cove Yacht and Racquet Club in Naples, Fl. Our last day at Hidden Dunes will be August 10, with a start date in Naples of September 1.

Long story short, we were not unhappy at Hidden Dunes and by no means were we even looking for another job. This came to us. Phil's nephew, David Macdonald, owns a company (Escalante Golf) that buys primarily golf clubs that are in financial trouble, fixes them up, gets them back in the black, then either sells or maintains them. Tennis can sometimes be a part of some of these properties. Tarpon Cove is a property that Escalante acquired about 5 or 6 years ago.
About 12 days ago, David called to say that the pro at Tarpon Cove had left and did Phil and I have any interest in taking the position. In addition to running Tarpon Cove, Escalante has just acquired an additional property, Spanish Wells, which is a golf and tennis club. The tennis at Spanish Wells needs work on the courts and the programs. It would be our duties to oversee the refurbishing of the Spanish Wells facility then "marrying" the two programs together to have continuity between the to clubs. We were intrigued, and went to Naples for a couple of days to get a feel of the possibility. Escalante offered us an unbelievable compensation package, and we decided the time was right to leave Hidden Dunes and accept the offer in Naples. I have been at Hidden Dunes for 26 1/2 years. That is a long time to be in one place, in one position, especially in this business. I had that deep down, in your gut feeling that this was an opportunity that we needed to take advantage of.

We are very excited about the new challenges that lie ahead. Phil and I are looking forward to working together and building a new program at Tarpon Cove and Spanish Wells using the same brand of service that has made Hidden Dunes so successful. Leaving the many wonderful relationships that have been cultivated through the years is the most difficult part of making this decision.

I will continue my blog, and hope that our many Hidden Dunes friends will follow our new lives. Both of our health issues are much improved. My ablation must have really taken care of my afib and flutter issues, because even through all this stress, I continue to feel good. Phil's rehab on his shoulder is progressing. He has about 2 more weeks in the sling, and his physical therapy is going well. He is anxious for quicker healing, but completely understands he must bide his time and listen to the doctors, and his body.

We have so much to do, in so little time, but I will try post and keep everyone up to date.....

Exactly a Week

2011-07-01T14:31:00.005-05:00

It's been exactly a week from this minute that we started our trip home from Gulf Breeze after Phil's surgery. I have to say, I'm very proud of him and how he's made it through the first week. I know we have many long days, weeks and even months to go through, but we've made it through the first week of post-op pain, first week physical therapy sessions and, well, really the first week of what our new "normal" will be for a while.

The first week of PT has been very promising. Bob, physical therapist extraordinaire, is VERY encouraged by Phil's progress. Mind you, Bob is working on minimal range of motion right now, but it's been exciting to see the progress Phil has made in only 3 visits. Phil has homework exercises he will be doing before returning to PT on Tuesday. We started walking short distances this week, to help build and maintain Phil's cardio health. Bob also recommended that Phil start in the gym with leg exercises, and a STATIONARY BIKE....I think I'll make him wear a helmet just in case! :-)

Thankfully Wimbledon has been on, and kept Phil occupied during the early stages of being "recliner confined". As he has begun to feel better and come off the pain meds, he has gotten antsy to get out. He has been into work with me a few days this week, for a couple of hours each day, but tires easily and heads back home to the "chair". I'll be most pleased for him when he is able to find a comfortable sleeping spot. He starts in the recliner, heads to the bed with propped up pillows for a short while, then ultimately ends back up in the recliner. Of course I'm tagging along, like a mother hen, trying to help him find ways to get the best rest he can. I know his body will heal quicker with good rest and proper nutrition. I am just as committed to helping him return to championship form, as he is to getting there.

Phil will start back to work on Monday with his weekly drill sessions with the guys. I know he's looking forward to being back on the court, even if it's not in a hitting capacity. He can impart his vast wisdom and tennis know-how from the side lines as I become his arm for the next few months. That's teamwork!

One Day Closer

2011-06-25T19:40:00.004-05:00

We've been home from Gulf Breeze, after Phil's surgery, for about 24 hours. The surgery took a couple of hours. When Dr. Ostrander came out to let me know he was done, his one defining comment was, "it was a big tear". The blessing is that he's on the other side, having finally had the surgery. He (we) have been prepared for the post-op pain, and so far it's been manageable. The nerve block administered pre surgery was still in effect for the drive home, and lasted through the night and until mid day today. We upped the catheter inserted numbing pump as recommended by the nurses and gave him his first pain pill. Our goal is stay one step ahead of the pain, if possible. I'm really proud of Phil and how he is handling these unchartered waters. In over 50 years of playing his only maladies have been a couple of bouts with tennis elbow and a minor arthroscopic knee surgery. As I've said many times before, he knows he's got a tough road of recovery to face, but attitude is everything, and he definitely has the right attitude. Physical therapy starts Monday. I'm sure at this phase it will be minimal therapy, but every day from here on out puts him one day closer to being back on the court. If you hear a primal scream around11:00 on Monday, you'll know that Phil is at P.T.

One Down, One to Go

2011-06-21T14:52:00.004-05:00

Now that I'm recovering, resting up and gaining strength each day, it's time to get Phil taken care of.

He had a successful appointment with Dr. Ostrander at the Andrews Institute in Gulf Breeze. We both were holding out a small chance that surgery could be avoided, but we really knew in our heart of hearts that surgery was the only option. After Dr. Ostrander did a physical examination, read the MRI and talked to Phil about what he does and the level of tennis that he plays, he confirmed that surgery was necessary for Phil to make a full recovery. He said the procedure itself is fairly routine, and done arthroscopically, but the rehab and recovery time is the killer. Phil had resigned himself for the news, so he wasn't taken aback by the fact that he'll be six to nine months from playing again. That's not to say he won't be lightly hitting ground strokes before then, but for sure the serving and hitting overheads will take a while. Phil has avowed to approach this like he would a big tournament. The physical therapy begins on Monday, three days after surgery. He has some tough days ahead of him, especially the first couple of weeks post surgery, but he will be diligent in doing his therapy and do whatever it takes to expedite his recovery. We have the recliner all ready for him to sleep and rest in. Good thing Wimbledon is on this next week......I'll keep everyone posted on how the surgery goes.

Now that we have a plan for Phil and know what his recovery will consist of, I will start my comeback. It's been about a year that I haven't felt great or been able to play with any consistency. My goal is to play the clay court nationals in October in West Palm Beach. There are also some side trips that Phil and I would like to take in the coming months as well. The biggest being to Hawaii, possibly in December. I'm signing up for hula lessons tomorrow.

Glad to Be Home

2011-06-18T09:23:00.002-05:00

It's been a whirlwind the past few days. Thankfully we're home safe and seemingly healthy. My ablation procedure went smoothly and according to Dr. Kay, successfully. Throughout the past 72 hours I could feel the power of prayers that were being sent my way. I never had a moment of angst or anxiety through the whole procedure or leading up to to it. UAB is a top notch, first class health facility. I knew I was exactly where I needed to be to take care of my problem. Phil was such a trooper through it all, once again enduring a long night in an uncomfortable hospital recliner/bed. Once released from the hospital yesterday, we both were anxious to get home. It was a tough drive home, mainly because he was so tired, and I felt "yucky" as the only way I could describe it. After what seemed like the longest 4 1/2 hours of our lives, we were home. I quickly fell into bed, and slept for about 14 hours straight. I awoke this morning feeling much better and happy to be home. Best news is the only medication I'm on is the blood thinner, and only for six more weeks. No more antiarrythmia drugs! Dr. Kay says I should feel noticeably better just being off that. Yipppppeeeeee!

I must thank EVERYONE who has called, texted, and emailed to check on me. Phil and I have been overwhelmed by your thoughts and concerns. Also a big thank you and hug to Bob Greene and to Gwynne and Bob Nauert for stopping by the hospital to visit me prior to my procedure. You helped calm my nerves and pass the time while waiting. I will never forget your thoughtfulness.

Now that I am "fixed", it's time to take care of Phil. We see a surgeon on Monday, and hope to formulate a plan to get him back on the road to recovery. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers as we decide what is the best course of action to repair his shoulder.

Another Birthday, Another Year

2011-06-11T09:17:00.013-05:00

Hitting a milestone birthday makes you stop and think about your past, future, and everything in between. The first 50 years has certainly been filled with many twists and turns. Never did I imagine that when I came to Hidden Dunes fresh out of college, I'd still be here 26 years later. I love my job, and the people I work with and for. The friendships that have formed over the years with the people I have met through work, make my work seem like play...everyday.

Those are the same people who have picked me up each time life threw a curve ball....losing my Dad to cancer, divorce, dealing with the tragic loss of my Mom, the passing of my beloved dogs...and those friends are the same people who have celebrated my life's victories...too many to name. Through all the ups and downs, by far the most precious gift of all has been Phil. God answered my prayers of putting the perfect person in my life to love and balance me. Never before have I been treated with such unconditional love and respect. I have reached a point in my life that I am truly happy in all aspects of my life...mind, body and soul. If this is what 50 feels like, bring on the next 50 years!

Now for updates on Phil's injury and my heart:

I'm having my ablation procedure this Thursday in Birmingham....finally. It feels like this has been looming for so long. I'm so ready to have it and be done with it. Thank you in advance for your prayers. I feel certain everything will go just fine.

Phil on the other hand is in for a battle. Since my last post of over a month ago, Phil has had additional x-rays and an MRI. The x-ray showed a fracture of his left elbow, but no casting or immobilization needed, although it is very painful if he turns it a certain way. But more importantly, the MRI shows a "significant tear" in the rotator cuff of his right shoulder. Surgery is imminent. He has an appointment with an orthopedic surgeon at the Andrews Clinic in Gulf Breeze on Monday, June 20th. We may also get an opinion in St. Louis from the St. Louis Cardinals orthopedic guy, thanks to my brother. Phil has a good attitude and knows that he's in for a big challenge over the next year. Yes, it's a tough injury to deal with, but in the big scheme of things it's not so bad. We have friends who are dealing with life threatening illnesses. Phil's injury is fixable and he will play again. He still has goals to reach....mainly us playing in future husband/wife nationals.

How Quickly Things Can Change

2011-05-11T15:27:00.000-05:00

Sorry for not being able to post from Atlanta. All I had to work with was my phone, and for some reason I could access the blog, and type in the title line, but not in the body of the post. So the best I could do was write the one-liners. But here's a brief re-cap of the weekend......

Besides watching great tennis all weekend long, which I enjoyed every minute of, the highlight of our trip was going to a Braves-Brewers baseball game on Thursday night! We took the MARTA rail/bus system to the stadium and enjoyed a relaxing, fun evening at the ball park. Probably one of our most favorite things to do together is go to a baseball game.

Phil and Larry only had to play two matches, but both were tough. They played very well, especially in the finals against Brian Cheney and Armistead Neeley. The first set was tight, and they won it in a tiebreaker. They were in total control of the second set and won 6-1. So to date, Phil has won the National 60 Hard Court doubles with Brian Cheney and three Category II national's in doubles with Larry Turville. Not a bad start to the 2011 season. He was due to leave today for Jackson, Mississippi to play another CatII, but oh, how quickly things can change....on Monday afternoon, Phil was finishing up a 12 mile bike ride, while I was work. As he slowed into the driveway, he used his left brake (rear), then hit is right brake (front), which grabbed the tire, and abruptly threw Phil over the handle bars onto the driveway. He landed awkwardly on both wrists and shoulders. From the intense pain he felt, he was certain that he had broken one or both wrists, plus his shoulders were a mess. I was at work and had no idea any of this was going on. Two hours had passed by the time I got home. I tried to convince him to go to the ER as a precaution, but he didn't want to. Yesterday morning I immediately texted our orthopedic doctor friend and he said he could see Phil in the afternoon at his Bluewater Bay office. Fortunately, after Xrays, there were no fractures. The doctor was a bit concerned about Phil's right shoulder, and wants to see him in a week, and may do a MRI. I'm hoping it's just been jarred really bad, and time and TLC will take care of it. My, how quickly things can change.

Never losing his great sense of humor, Phil is trying to spin all this into me agreeing that we need a riding lawnmower since pushing a mower will be difficult in his "current state". Believe me, that's NOT going to happen. Besides, at the rate our grass is dying due to the extreme dry conditions, we won't even have a lawn to mow!

My procedure is still scheduled for June 16th, which is 5 weeks from tomorrow. But who's counting.

Doubles Champs! 7-6. 6.1

2011-05-07T15:44:00.000-05:00

phil & larry win semis; finals sat., vs. cheney/neeley

2011-05-06T17:28:00.001-05:00

May is Finally Here

2011-05-02T07:32:00.003-05:00

It seems like it's been an very long and extended season for us at work this year. Usually we can count on things to slow down after Easter weekend. With Easter being unusually late on the calendar this year, our spring season extended until yesterday, when the last of our spring break business ended. Now we have only about a four week period before Memorial Day weekend and we'll rev up again for our summer season. Don't get me wrong, we love to be busy at work, but we also look forward to our down time to rest up, revitalize and get ready for the next season. Bring on summer!

I am very much looking forward to going with Phil this weekend to Atlanta where he will be playing in the Atlanta Senior Invitational. His calf injury has improved, but not enough for him to feel confident playing both singles and doubles, so wisely he is only playing doubles. He and Larry Turville will be playing together again. The draw is small with only four teams....sounds easy, but not really. The other strong team is Brian Cheney and Armistead Neely. That will be a battle royale and I'm really looking forward to watching four world class doubles players go at it. There are quite a few of the guys who work out in Phil's clinic that are playing in the tournament, so it will be a great weekend of watching and cheering for all our local players! I hope to posting from my a new ipad (happy birthday*early* to me!). If I can't get one in Atlanta, my result posting will be scarce as I currently don't have a "travel" computer. You can always check the link to the draws on the right of this post if needed for scores and results.

Time to Get Ready

2011-04-26T15:34:00.002-05:00

It was a week ago yesterday (Monday) that Phil came home from Palm Springs. He's been nursing his calf, and trying not to do too much on it, knowing we leave a week from tomorrow for Atlanta for the category II, Atlanta Sr. Invitational. He had fully intended to play singles and doubles, but after much thought, he's decided to only play doubles in Atlanta. (A wise decision) He feels certain he can get by in doubles, playing with Larry Turville, but is afraid that singles would re aggravate his tender calf. The positive for me is that I'll only be a nervous wreck watching his match once a day rather than twice a day! I'm looking forward to getting away for a few days.

The scheduling nurse called from Dr. Kay's office and I am scheduled for my ablation on June 16th. I was REALLY hoping for a May date, but I am happy to take what I can get. I have started my blood thinning meds in case there is a cancellation and I can get in sooner. I never like to wish away time, but the date can't get here quick enough for me.

To the right of the this post is the debut of Phil as a tennis commentator. He and Brent Abel did the commentating for the National 60's hard court final of Larry Turville and Paul Wulf. I think he did an outstanding job!

If I don't post again before, I'll post from Atlanta. My mini laptop bit the dust, so I'm in the process of getting a new travel computer. I may treat myself to an Ipad for my upcoming milestone birthday.

Finals

2011-04-17T06:43:00.005-05:00

Sorry for the delay in posting Phil's final results. I tried posting last night and for some reason, after I had typed it all in, blogger wouldn't let me post or even save the draft. I got frustrated and tired and said I'd do try it again this morning. Renee and I played a super fun doubles match at Hidden Dunes with Bob Greene and Richard Rula yesterday, and finished up right about the time Phil was starting his final. I decided that instead of sitting at home wondering and worrying what was going on in his match, that I'd go to Tops'l to watch some of the Helen Drake tournament. John Pittman and Craig Broome were playing doubles so I hung around with Marilyn to watch. About a set and a half into their match my phone buzzed and it was Phil. I moved away from the spectators to take the call. THEY WON! I must have yelped with glee when he told me, because everyone around me was giving me thumbs up and congrats when I got off the phone. I am so thrilled for Phil. He was very concerned about his calf muscle prior to leaving for the tournament, and I was especially concerned when he re injured it during the singles match. Phil has an incredible fight in him and I couldn't be any more proud than I am. He inspires me everyday. His flight home isn't until tomorrow, so he'll hang out today watching the singles final and enjoying his week of hard work. I'll finally breathe a deep sigh of relief that I don't have to keep looking at the clock and wonder how any matches are going.

Good News x 2

2011-04-16T07:23:00.004-05:00

Phil and Brian are still on a roll. They won their semis final doubles match yesterday 6-2, 6-3. Phil was very up beat about the way they played. His calf seemed to hold up ok and now if he can just make it through one more match. They play the defending champs, a great team in Tommy Connell and Tony Dawson, who beat Larry Turville and Neal Newman in three sets in the other semis. The match is today at 11:00 PST. I'll be a nervous wreck until I hear the results. I'll have to keep busy until I hear something.

Marilyn and I returned from Birmingham yesterday afternoon around 5:00. We were both so impressed with how well oiled and fine tuned the whole Kirklin Clinic operation is. Just as instructed, I showed up for my chest Xray and EKG at 10. I was in and out of both in less than 10 minutes. I then went right into my appointment with Dr. Kay. Dr. Kay's junior doctor in training (my title for him...he is doing his fellowship under Dr. Kay) was very thorough, very informative and very nice. He did all the preliminary work with history, questions, etc...and also reviewed all the records from Dr. Phlaum and Dr. Verma. Then Dr. Kay came in after being briefed by "junior". He too was extremely nice, and took a lot of time to explain and draw pictures of what is going on with my heart and answer all my questions. It appears that in the healing process from my first ablation, a small gap formed in one of the pulmonary veins that was cauterized and is allowing the miss firing cells to escape, causing continual afib problems. It also appears that I was born with an additional open electrical pathway that does not need to be there. So Dr.Kay will go in and take care of the gap and the extra pathway during the ablation. He feels like that in about 6 months I should hopefully be off all medications, which is what my ultimate goal is. I'm not thrilled about having another procedure. The one thing I remember the most about my last procedure was telling Phil that I don't want to ever have to do this again. But if I know this will take care of it, then I'm all for it. I asked what would happen if I didn't do the procedure and I really didn't like that answer at all....I would eventually go into permanent afib, and my risk of stroke was extremely high. Not a viable option at all. So now I wait to hear from Dr. Kay's office to set up the appointment. I have to be on a cumidan like drug for 2 weeks prior to surgery, and for 6 weeks post surgery. It's an over night stay in the hospital and then home. My guess is that it will be scheduled for May sometime. Dr. Kay did say that about 30% of ablation patients must go in for a second "touch up" ablation. Let's hope the second time is a charm!

Down but Not Out

2011-04-14T19:56:00.009-05:00

I've asked Phil many times during the week how his calf has been feeling...the one he pulled a muscle in a week ago while working out with Armi. He's sounded cautiously optimistic about it each time, but never overly confident. He was able to get through his first two singles and doubles matches without over taxing it, but today his luck ran out on it. He was up 6-1, 4-0, playing great, and on a serve, he landed and reinjured the same calf. Instead of retiring out of the match (easier said than done), he tried to play through it and never won another game. He was so disappointed and I felt so bad for him. For once I could truly empathize. I had the same experience in Houston a few years ago at the clay courts. I was up 6-0, 5-1 before I begin cramping. Your mindset is "surely I can win one more game". Forget it. When your body says it's done, it's done. Phil iced his calf really good, taped it up really good and tried to play doubles. Somehow he and Brian pulled it out and now are in the semis. So all is not lost. Phil is a fighter and will never give up. I just hope he's smart about it and doesn't do more damage to his calf by continuing to play. Marilyn and I made it to Birmingham this late this afternoon. I'm so thankful for her being here. She knew exactly where to go, where to stay and where to eat. I'm really looking forward to my appointment tomorrow and hope to get some answers. I'm ready to feel normal again.

Whirlwind

2011-04-13T15:10:00.003-05:00

All the sudden it's Wednesday, and I'm trying to figure out what has happened to the last four or five days. Let's see... I spent Sunday and Monday in Little Rock and had a fantastic time. I was able to accomplish all I wanted in a quick trip...

I spent great quality time with Melissa, catching up on life and doing things we enjoy doing together...walking, talking, pedicures, shopping, eating...just hanging out.

I visited the church columbarium, where my Mom and Dad's ashes are buried

I drove by our old house that I grew up in...looks great

I spent time with good friends Steve and Sharon, who so graciously hosted me in their most beautiful home, (I call it my private resort)

I ate a Shipley's donut (chocolate filled) two actually...a childhood favorite treat

It was a great trip and I'm so glad I went. Today is back to work, then tomorrow afternoon I will leave with Marilyn for Birmingham and see what's up with this heart thing of mine.

Now about Phil...

He played and won his first matches in singles and doubles, easily yesterday. Although if you look at the results on the draws online, they have the wrong winner posted. Believe me, I've had plenty of phone calls wondering what happened. He's played his second match already today and won that as well, and should be playing doubles right about now. Phil said that it's just absolutely gorgeous weather in Palm Springs, but the winds are blowing today around 40 mph. Tough conditions to play in for everybody. His calf, so far, has held up ok.

I'll post again soon with Phil's match results and my doctor's visit results.

Leaving Town

2011-04-09T12:43:00.003-05:00

We had an early wake up call at 3:30 a.m. to get Phil to the airport for his 6:30 flight to Palm Springs this morning. I don't think I really slept last night, being afraid of over sleeping. Now I feel zombie like. I did spend most of the morning, in my zombie like state, cleaning the rest of the house, that I had started last night. Now it's my turn to go back to the airport in a few hours so I can catch a flight to Little Rock to hang out with my best pal, Melissa. I'll be staying at Steve and Sharon's, which is better than any four star resort! I think the convenience and low cost of this new airlines is going to be allow me to spend more time back in the "hood". Looks to be a busy week. Phil doesn't play his first match until Tuesday, so I'll update again sometime Tuesday evening.

Two Weeks Out

2011-03-25T15:25:00.005-05:00

Phil leaves for Palm Springs two weeks from tomorrow for his hard court nationals. He'll be gone for about 9 days. It's on one of his favorite surfaces and he's working hard to have a good tournament. Phil is really looking forward to playing doubles with Brian Cheney. They should make a pretty formidable pair. We've started hitting on the hard courts at Sandestin to get the feel needed to get on the ball a little quicker. It won't take Phil long to find his hard court game. He's invited a couple of his tennis buddies down to do some workouts late next week, so that will be helpful in his preparations. I think the tournament home page stated the draws will be posted on April 6th. I'll put them up on the blog for easy access.

A new airline is basing out of Ft. Walton and flying to 19 new cities. From now until Sunday you can book a flight for $19 each way!! It's almost criminal not to do it. I'm taking advantage of this great deal and going to go to Little Rock for a couple of days, while Phil is gone Palm Springs, to visit my friend Melissa. I'm really looking forward to it. I get back on Tuesday, then Thursday afternoon I leave for Birmingham to be there for my Friday morning appointment with the doctor at UAB. I'm ready to get on with all this and get my life back to normal!

Home Tonight

2011-03-12T18:50:00.002-06:00

Phil and David are on their way home after a long day of tennis. Phil lost his singles final to Larry 6-4, 6-3. I kept up with the match with constant texts from Donna, Evert's wife, who was there watching. The scores were back and forth with service holds and breaks. Phil said he threw a couple of double faults into the two service games that he was broken (one service game each set)and added a few errant forehands into the mix. He's still focused on his main goal, which is doing well at the hard courts in Palm Springs in April. I'd say he's right on schedule. Larry and Phil won their semi final doubles match love and love, then went back on court a few minutes later to win their final match 6-2, 6-2. It's been a long week of tennis for Phil, but I know he's enjoyed his time hanging with the guys and playing. I'm looking forward to him being home tonight. As we always say..."it's what we do".

I hope to be getting back soon to "what we do".

Windy Win

2011-03-11T17:36:00.003-06:00

It seems that the weather we have had in Destin has been a preview of the weather for St. Pete the next day. Wednesday we had wind, then rain. St. Pete had the same Wednesday night into Thursday. Thursday we had wind and cooler temps. Same for St. Pete on Friday. Today we had a spectacular day, calm winds and bright sunshine. Tomorrow should be the same for St. Pete, which will make for perfect playing conditions for Phil in his singles final. He was able to handle the wind today and played well, beating Mike Dahm 6-4,6-0. Believe it or not, Mike's wife Tonya was texting me during the match to keep me posted on the score. How neat is that? I was on the court teaching when I received her first message that Phil had won the first set, and was up a break the first game of the second set. The next text says... "ur boy beat my boy". Pretty funny. Phil and Larry won their doubles easily love and love.

So tomorrow Phil and Larry have the singles final against each other. Since their last meeting a month ago in Sarasota , Phil has had this rematch on his mind. I can guarantee that Phil will be ready for a battle tomorrow. His singles match is at 9:30, and I believe they are going to try to play both semis and finals of the doubles tomorrow. I hope so, because I'm really ready for him to come home tomorrow night. Evert lost a tough match in the 65's semis and will play a playoff for third and fourth in the morning. David and his partner upset the #2 seed in the 65 doubles. It's great that all the guys are doing so well. I'm so proud of Phil and how well he's doing this early in the season. I predict a great year for Phil.

My precious little God dog, Lil' Bit, has been a under the weather and was diagnosed with pancreatitis. Thank goodness it was caught early enough, and with some fluid treatments, antibiotics and TLC from her mommy Marilyn, she is feeling better. I love that little boo so much!

Rain Delayed

2011-03-10T20:44:00.004-06:00

The torrential rains that plowed through here during the day yesterday, moved into St. Pete overnight and early morning, leaving the courts wet and matches delayed. Phil's 9:30 a.m. match went on around 4:00 this afternoon. The only matches that played were main draw singles. All singles consolations and main draw doubles were canceled until tomorrow. Phil won fairly easy, I think he said the scores were maybe 6-2, 6-1. He said he played a little better today. Tomorrows semifinal will be against Mike Dahm, a good player from Dayton, Ohio. Mike is an aggressive serve and vollyer. It should prove to be a tough match. Because of the rain delay, the doubles are a round behind, so Phil and Larry will play their quarterfinal doubles tomorrow afternoon. Evert Jonsson won his quarterfinal singles match in the 65's and will be playing in the semis tomorrow as well.

We had our winter guest farewell party tonight. It was a great evening of dancing, laughing, fun and fellowship. I always find myself mentally and physically exhausted by this time of year, but being with these wonderful people makes it all so worthwhile. They have all touched my life in so many different ways. I feel so blessed to be doing what I do, and even more blessed by who I surround myself with everyday. God has been so good to me.

One Match Down

2011-03-09T13:45:00.002-06:00

Phil finally played his first match today. He wasn't at all pleased with how he played, but he did win 4 and 4. The weather was breezy and balmy, and he said he felt flat...couldn't quite get the adrenaline going. Hopefully that was just getting his first match out of the way and now he'll be ready to play tomorrow. The matches will only get tougher from here on out. He and Larry also have a doubles match tomorrow. I think the other guys from here, Chip and Evert, won their matches, but David lost his. It sounds like they're having a great time all hanging out together. It's kind of neat that all the guys from here that practice and work out together are down there playing and hanging out together. Everyone seems to be motivating each other, which makes everyone a better player and competitor.

Work has been especially busy and hectic as our season starts to wind down. Our winter guest tennis family has been dealt a tragic blow, when we learned that Lefty and Nan Wright's twelve year old grandson, Teddy took his own life on Monday. He was an amazingly brilliant young man, who had just finished composing, yes I said composing, an orchestra piece. He composed the music for each of the instruments. Teddy was also an accomplished musician and had a great love for baseball. Needless to say it has cast a sad cloud over our very close knit group. We will do all we can to help Lefty and Nan deal with this tragedy. Our winter group is like family to me. I celebrate all of life's great moments with them and I share their sorrow and sadness when life deals a bad hand.

I finally heard back from the doctor's office in Birmingham. I have an appointment on April 15th. Phil will be in Palm Springs for his hard court nationals, so he won't be able to accompany me, which I know he'll fight me tooth and nail on. It's important for him to play. Maybe if there is a cancellation I can get in sooner. We'll see.

Time to Play Again

2011-03-06T11:56:00.002-06:00

It's been exactly a month since I last posted Phil's Sarasota tournament results. Today he and player/friend, David Edmundson left for St. Petersburg to play another CAT II national. This will be Phil's last warm up tournament before he goes to Palm Springs in mid April for his hard court nationals. His first match in this tournament isn't until Wednesday, but David was driving and has a Tuesday first round match. It's always good to have at least one day in between arriving and playing. In Phil's case he'll have two days, which will allow him to rest up and acclimate to warmer temps. He was more than ready for the tournament to hurry up and get here. Day after day drilling and hitting gets old...it's time to play ball!

Speaking of playing ball....opening day of baseball is in 25 days!!!

As for me...I've been working like crazy as our winter guest season has been busy as ever. Renee and Phil have been on the courts teaching and Jerry and I have been manning the inside and everything else. By this time of the season I am an exhausted mess. It's all so worth it though and I love what I do. Until two weeks ago I had put my health issues aside. I finally called to have my medical records from here sent to a doctor at UAB in Birmingham. I have not heard back from them yet, but hope to know something this week. If I don't get satisfaction from UAB, then I'm off to St. Louis to see a specialist there. I know I just need to do something, because limbo is a terrible place to be hanging out!

The links to Phil's draws are posted to the right of this post. I'll report again probably Tuesday, but most definitely on Wednesday after his first singles match.

Driving Home a Winner

2011-02-05T18:13:00.003-06:00

It's no surprise that Phil and Larry won the finals today easily, 6-1, 6-1. It would be a hard search to find a team that could hang in there with them. Phil can set up the point with low returns and precise volleys and Larry can take over the net with his reach and power. Phil and Chip Thomas are driving back together and should be home tonight around 9:30. It was a successful tournament for all the guys that went from this area. Besides Phil's results, Chip lost in the finals of the 55 doubles, and Evert had a spectacular showing in the 65's. He upset the #4 seed in the quarters, before losing to Hugh Thompson in the semis. Then today Evert beat the #3 seed in the playoff for three and four. Nobody works harder than Evert, and it's great to see hard work payoff. I have to give Phil a little credit for Evert's results. Evert and Phil have been working together for the past nine months or so, and Phil has Evert believing that he can compete with the best. This was a break through tournament for Evert and no one deserves it more. Congrats to all the guys that played and competed!

I'm starting to get the bug again to play and I'm looking forward to getting back on the court. Phil will be happy to be home and we'll enjoy a relaxing Super Bowl Sunday. Phil's next tournament will be in St. Petersberg in early March.

Final Results

2011-02-04T18:44:00.002-06:00

Phil will the be first to say if plays well or not. In fact, I think he is unusually hard on himself sometimes. When he called today after his match to say he lost 6-3, 6-2, but still felt pretty good about how he played, I knew it had to have been a great match. Even though he had just lost, there was a sound of excitement in his voice. Not excitement about his result, but more about the fact that he is walking away from this match knowing exactly what he needs to work on to improve the results on his next meeting with Larry. Phil and Larry are among the top players in their age group and will meet again this year and many more times in the years to come. We have both said that the workouts and training is half the fun of doing what we do!

Phil and Larry won their semifinal doubles match and play the finals at noon tomorrow. They make such a strong team, I don't think they should have much trouble in the finals, but you never know. Phil will leave to drive home right after the match, and I'm very excited about that! We're both looking forward to Sunday, and enjoying a nice quiet, relaxing day together. In the mean time I have my sweet angel Lil' Bit keeping me company.

Double Win

2011-02-03T18:02:00.003-06:00

As I've mentioned many time before, I always get nervous waiting for THE call. Imagine how surprised I was when the phone rang after an hour and a half it was Phil...not telling me he won (or lost), but that he had split sets! Never did I expect a call from him between sets....a player only gets so much time between the second and third set and usually during that time you're changing cloths, getting more water, and trying to figure out what to do to win the third. Phil knew I'd be worried, and took the time to call to let me know they had split. Wow! That meant so much to me! Of course I then proceeded to worry and wonder what was going on for the next 45 minutes to an hour. Finally the second call came that he pulled out a win, 6-4 in the third. I knew going into today that he would be challenged. It's early in the tournament season, and it's great to be tested early and be able to pull out tough three setters. It makes you better and mentally tougher as a player. Phil now plays his doubles partner, and current 60's World Champion, Larry Turville. Larry is 6'8", and very good. He covers the court well for a tall guy, and has a killer forehand. Phil has beaten Larry before, just as Larry has beaten him. Phil will have to play aggressive, smart tennis to win. He has the capability to open his bag of tricks and pull this one out. Regardless of the result tomorrow, I know he'll come home with plenty of things he feels he needs to work on, but I also know he'll look back and be happy with how he competed.

He and Larry easily won their quarterfinal doubles this afternoon, and will play the semifinals after the singles final tomorrow. Big chance of rain here tomorrow, but I'll make sure I stay busy through the morning to help pass the time.

Playing Well

2011-02-02T19:09:00.002-06:00

While I always worry and wonder how Phil is doing when playing a tournament match away, the morning was so busy at work I didn't have time to watch the clock and wonder how his match was going. My phone did ring about an hour after the match started and I thought it was Phil, but not so. Then I started worrying that I hadn't heard from him yet. Thankfully he called about 20 minutes later to say he had won 6-3, 6-0. By the score, I knew he stayed with the plan to play smart, focused tennis. Alex can be tough to play, but Phil served well, and was precise with his passing shots. The matches certainly don't get any easier from here. He now plays Gewan Maharaj, a solid player who will give Phil all he wants. I have full confidence and faith in Phil. I hope work tomorrow will be just as busy as today, so I won't worry.

First Match

2011-02-01T16:23:00.004-06:00

Phil played his first singles match this morning and won. It sounded pretty routine....6-0, 6-3. I know it's nice to get the first match under your belt, and feel like you're finally in the tournament. He now plays a friend and good player, Alex Deeb, who is from the Tampa area, and has a condo at Sandestin. He and his wife, Nancy, spend quite a bit of time here in the late summer and again in the spring. Phil and Alex have worked out together but have not played each other in a tournament. Alex uses a very unusual racquet that has double handles on it. He hits a very heavy, topspin, loopy ball, which on clay courts is very effective. It will be an interesting match up for Phil, who is learning to love the clay now that he is an official Floridian. Phil's overall game is better suited for the faster hard court and indoor surfaces, but he can adapt that style of play to any surface. I think Phil will figure out a way to handle Alex's game. Phil and Larry are seeded first in doubles and have a bye. Their first match will be on Thursday.

Phil's Turn

2011-01-30T15:53:00.003-06:00

Phil left this morning with Jim Kiesby to drive to Sarasota/Bradenton for a category II national. It's his first tournament of the year and the first tournament in his new age group. He's been practicing intensely for this event and I think he's ready to "play some ball". Phil has a set way he likes to prepare for tournaments, and I admire the way he seeks out practice partners and puts in his time. Many times I am complacent and not as pro active in setting up my workouts. I hope Phil will enjoy the warm weather and change of scenery just as I did a couple of weeks ago.

His first singles match is on Tuesday and looks like doubles may not start until Thursday. He's eager to get his first match underway and get those competitive juices flowing. I really wish I could be there with him, but I'll do my cheer leading from afar. I will post his results daily. If you'd like to check out his singles and doubles draws, I've posted the links to each on the right of this post.

a side note on me and my health....I'm feeling fine. I haven't decided yet where I will seek a second opinion on my heart issue. I'll do something in the next 6-8 weeks.

Heading Home Early

2011-01-22T16:05:00.002-06:00

I wasn't scheduled to come home until tomorrow, but after Fran's singles win this morning over Susan Love, we both decided since we had nothing else to do, she could drive me to the airport in Ft. Lauderdale and I could get home a day early. I was torn between staying to watch her final tomorrow, or heading home, and sleeping in my own bed, having a hot shower (after our week of lukewarm showers in the hotel) and seeing Phil. The latter choice won, so I'm waiting for my flight to depart in about an hour.

I woke up feeling a little fatigued today. I warmed up Fran for her singles match, and after hitting about three balls, my arms and legs felt like heavy tree trunks that wouldn't move. Quite an interesting sensation. I'm now glad that we decided to not play the doubles after all. I'll have to go home and get all this figured out. In talking to my brother last night, he really wants me to come to St. Louis to get a second opinion. At some point I will. In the mean time, I'll still work on my game and try to do what I can to improve.

It's been a fun week away from work (which I always feel guilty leaving this time of year), but I accomplished what I needed to. Time to get back to work and focus on the rest of the winter guest season. I hope to be ready for a tournament in April again. I think it's a realistic goal. Phil plays his next tournament in Sarasota in a couple of weeks. I'll be posting on his results as he plays his first tournament of the year in a new age group.

Expect the Unexpected

2011-01-21T17:34:00.003-06:00

Another beautiful day in sunny south Florida. A perfect day for tennis, or so I thought. Fran and I had our usual early warm up. I was feeling good. Each day I've been feeling more on the ball and confident with my play. I knew Susan would be a tough match, but I was ready to see what I could do. About 30 minutes before my match, I went off on my own, stretched and got myself mentally prepared. I had a game plan, and was ready to put it into action.

Susan is a big hitter. She started out swinging big. We had some long exchanges, with both of us moving all over the court. In about the third game of the match, I was finding that I wasn't able to recover between points. My heart felt like it was beating out of my chest. I just couldn't catch my breath or recover. I was taking deep breaths and trying to slow everything down, but nothing was working. Fran was watching and I told her I was in trouble. Finally at 1-5 I called for the trainer and took a medical timeout. He took my pulse and blood pressure and stayed with me through the allotted time...I think it's about a 15 minute rule. After the timeout was over, I stood to see how I was feeling. I wobbled and was unsteady and I knew at that point I shouldn't continue. I was so disappointed. I had promised Phil that if I had any problems that I would be smart. My little voice was telling me to be smart. It's so hard to stop in the middle of a match and say you can't continue. At the trainers recommendation I decided to go to the local ER to get checked out. I was feeling pretty drained after it was all said and done. I opted for Fran to take me rather than call the paramedics. (later I found that it's best to call the paramedics so they can get a truer reading of what my heart is doing when I have the episode, rather than waiting 45 or so minutes later) The Palm Beach hospital and staff were great...except for the student blood drawer, who poked my vein, and caused a gusher bigger than a geyser! There was blood everywhere! All my blood work was fine, my heart rate and blood pressure stabilized. A bag of fluid later, I was on my way. I did call Dr. Phlaum, my cardiologist, while I was in the ER to let him know what was going on. He advised me not to try to play doubles this afternoon and just take it easy. So we pulled out of the doubles. Poor Fran must think I'm a medical mess...this is the third tournament that I've screwed up the doubles for her.

Other than feeling tired, I feel fine now. I'll hang out tomorrow and watch Fran play Susan in the semis, and hopefully watch Fran in the finals on Sunday, before we fly out on Sunday evening. Well, I wanted to use this tournament as a barometer to see where I am, and now I know. More work to do. I hope we can figure all this out. I've had a great time being back on the court and hanging out with all my tennis friends.

Live For Another Day

2011-01-20T19:21:00.002-06:00

Another beautiful day in sunny, south Florida. I almost feel like I'm in another country. Not because of the people, just the drastic change in weather and scenery. Today was in the mid 80's, people were swimming in the pool, lounging freely without a care in the world. As I mentioned before, the landscape is so green and lush with flowers blooming and birds chirping. A little piece of paradise.

Fran and I had a good nights sleep in our new accommodations, with a great breakfast. We had a couple of different warm ups before playing our mid day matches. Fran won easily, and I played a little less nervous today and won 6-1, 6-0. I did some things better, but still need to improve in other areas. I like the way I'm serving, and hitting my backhand. My forehand needs to be a little looser so I can get some depth on the ball. We had a fairly easy doubles match this afternoon and won that match 6-0, 6-1. The highlight of our day was that our friend Mary Dailey came to watch us play. We all had lunch together with lots of laughs. She lives in Delray Beach, and because she's still in the 45's, she didn't play this event.

Tomorrow will be a tough singles day for me. I play Susan Love, a strong lefty from North Carolina. She was a Margaret Court Cup teammate of mine in Turkey. I'll have to play tough, but I'm ready for the challenge. Our doubles is tomorrow afternoon against a good team. It will be day filled with great tennis and big challenges. I'm ready.

Good First Day

2011-01-19T17:09:00.004-06:00

It seems like today was the day that wouldn't end. Sort of a carryover from last night. Fran and I both arrived in Ft. Lauderdale within an hour of each other and met at the Hertz counter to start our hour drive to West Palm. Everything went like clock work, and we made it to our hotel, settled in and had a great night's sleep. Long story short, we ended up changing hotels this morning after we discovered we were about 13 miles from where we wanted to be. Found a closer hotel, with breakfast, MUCH cheaper. All that was done before 9:30 this morning.

On to the courts for a hit before my 1:00 match. It was strange to not be all bundled up while hitting...it was a balmy 83 degrees here today...so nice! BallenIsles is a beautiful facility. Lush landscaping, tropical plants galore and a huge, state of the art clubhouse. Very chic. We as players are very limited as to where we can go and what we can do on site, but it is a lovely place to be playing tennis. I'll try to throw in some pictures over the next few days.

My singles match went on a little early. I fought through some butterflys and nerves the first few games, but settled in to win easily 6-0, 6-1. Our doubles wasn't scheduled until 4:30 because of a scheduling accomodation for a local player who couldn't play her singles match before three, due to her work schedule. Unfortunately it was her opponent that we had to wait for to finish before we could play our doubles. As Murphy's law would have it, they split sets and played for almost three and a half hours! We finally got on to play doubles tonight around 7:00. Much past our feeding time, and closer to our bed time. Playing under the lights is not my favorite thing to do, but we perservered and won 6-0, 6-1. We quickly turned in our score and left in search of dinner, which we found at an Italian pasta and pizza restaurant. Scarfed down dinner, then headed to the grocery store for water, gatorade, etc...All things we would have liked to have done at more of a leisurely pace, rather than rushed and tired from a long day of waiting. Oh well. Day one is finally in the books and it's official. I'm back playing.

I know nothing about my opponent in singles or doubles tomorrow. Good for me. All I have to do is go out, play and have fun. In West Palm Beach. In 80 degree, sunny weather. I can handle that.

A New Year, A New Chapter

2011-01-18T12:41:00.003-06:00

The new year has brought me into a new age group. I age up into the 50's. It's always nice to be the youngest in the age group, but it certainly doesn't make it any easier. All the good players that were in the 45's with me, join me in the 50's. It's a vicious cycle, but it keeps it fun and challenging.

I'm leaving in a few hours to catch a plane to West Palm Beach to play at BallenIsles. This is a category II national, but by the looks of the strength in the draw, it could be a world championship! I'm using this tournament as a barometer to see where I'm at in terms of mental and physical training, and what I need to work on. I haven't competed since August, so I'm feeling a little apprehensive, but I have to start somewhere. Get back on the horse. I just hope I haven't jumped on a bucking bronco!! Fran and I are playing doubles together, and that I'm really looking forward to. She is so nice and so fun and easy to play with. We're also rooming together which is an added bonus. We both like to eat early, go to bed early and get up early...should work out perfectly.

It's always tough leaving work this time of year, with the winter guests in full swing. But I'm leaving it in the capable hands of Jerry, Renee, Phil and some gracious volunteers to help out around the edges as needed. I still say I have the best job in the world, with the best staff, and best clientele that ever was. They all make it easy for me to do what I do.

I'll be posting daily with match results and maybe a few pictures if I get super creative. My first singles match is tomorrow (Wednesday) at 1:00 with doubles later in the afternoon.

Gold Ball Winner!

2010-11-13T18:59:00.000-06:00

Golden Day

2010-11-13T17:12:00.008-06:00

Phil just called from the court to tell me they won the finals! The score was 6-4,
7-6 (7-4) and that's about all I know....

Ok, he just called back...He said he played really well (and he's pretty good about saying whether or not he plays well in a match). His serve wasn't broken all match and he returned very well. Tom was serving for the match at 6-5 and the other team broke to go to a second set tiebreak, which Phil and Tom won 7-4. Wow! That's three national championships in about a six week period. A great way to end the season, and the last year in the age group.

Semi Final Day

2010-11-12T17:41:00.003-06:00

It's tough waiting all day to hear the result of Phil and Tom's doubles matches. Because the doubles are played mid to late afternoon PST, it's usually 6:00 CST until I hear something. I took today off from work to clean up the yard and run a bunch of errands. So I stayed busy and didn't have time to worry about the results. Just as I was sitting down to relax with Lil' Bit, Phil called from the court. They had just finished and they won 6-3, 6-2! I'm so proud of him! I don't know the details of the match, only the score....

Fast forward..
Phil called back after he reported their score to tell me more about the match. He said that he and Tom got off to a quick start and were up 4-0 in short time. After a couple of breaks, and holds they won the set 6-3, and finished strong by winning the second 6-2. Like yesterday he said the match was closer than the score indicates. Looks like the final will be played tomorrow. Maybe he can come home a little earlier on Sunday instead of taking the "red-eye" home overnight Sunday night and getting in Monday morning. I sure hope so!

Another Good Day

2010-11-11T19:09:00.002-06:00

Phil just called to say that he and Tom won their quarterfinal match today. They played a team from California that they had beaten in the finals of this same tournament two years ago. With the win two years ago, in three sets, Tom and Phil won the "Gold Slam". They won today 6-3, 6-3. According to Phil it was a really well played match with lots of quick exchanges. Tom moved on to the quarters of the singles, and Tom and Phil are in the semis of the doubles. I think they'll play tomorrow. Right now Phil is scheduled to take a red-eye home on Sunday night and arrive in FWB on Monday morning. If the tournament stays on schedule, and they keep winning, it looks like the tournament could be over on Saturday. I'd love it if he came home early!!! I've been keeping Lil' Bit this week while John and Marilyn are playing in Kiawah. I love having her here to keep me company! She's such a cutie patootie!

Finally Played

2010-11-10T18:27:00.002-06:00

Phil and Tom finally played their first round doubles match this afternoon in Palm Springs. They won 6-4, 6-3. I know Phil was practiced out and ready to get started. He said the match was filled with breaks of serves, but he and Tom returned really well. Tom also won his singles match today. The weather in Palm Springs has been predictably beautiful, just as it has been here. They will play again tomorrow afternoon.

Waiting to Play

2010-11-09T18:28:00.002-06:00

Phil arrived safely in Palm Springs on Sunday. He and Tom were originally scheduled to play their first round doubles match today, but a couple of teams dropped out, so they ended up with a bye and now play tomorrow. Phil has spent the past couple of days practicing and getting acclimated to the courts and the surroundings. I'd love to be out in Palm Springs with him. Maybe next year.

I get to take care of Lil' Bit this week while John and Marilyn are in Kiawah playing the Southern Closed. She's such a sweet baby, and I love having her with me. Doggies are the best!

I'll post Phil's results as they happen this week.

Diamonds on the Water

2010-11-07T18:51:00.001-06:00

Leaving Sunday

2010-11-03T09:18:00.002-05:00

Phil leaves Sunday for Palm Springs to play doubles in the National Hard courts. He's been working hard to get ready. I wish I were healthier, so I could be on the court working out with him. I have been able to stay in a corner and hit some cross courts, feed him some overheads and set up targets for his serve practice.

I have been babying my foot since being out of the boot. I've hit for only 15 or so minutes at a time. I only experienced pain one time and it scared the crap out of me. I was so afraid that I would be back to square one again. I've been able to do the fitness workouts with Geoff and hope that will make my transition back on the court a little easier. I feel like I've forgotten how to play. I've had longer layoffs and bounced back.

The most exciting news is our ping pong table! So much fun! We've had some incredible battles. Because we are both so incredibly competitive, the trash talking is worth the price of admission! We had the neighbors stopping by out of curiosity, because they heard the yells of "you're so lucky", "you don't have that shot" bellowing from the garage. I've only won one match, but I haven't unleashed my true ping pong talents yet!

Heading West and More

2010-10-30T06:00:00.002-05:00

Phil has decided to head west to Palm Springs to play the national hard courts. The hard courts at Indian Wells are very gritty and very slow, which tends to cause injuries to alot of the players, so as he's done many times in the past, he is only going to play doubles. He and Tom have had a great year, and if they do well, will end the year ranked #1. I wish like crazy I could go, but we are leaving a week after he returns to go to Denver for Thanksgiving to visit his brother and sister. Next year his 60's hard courts are at Mission Hills in Palm Springs, and my 50 hard courts are in La Jolla. I'll have plenty of opportunities to slum around Southern California in the next 5 years either playing or watching. The draws to Phil's tournament are to be posted today and as usual, I will put a link to them to the right of this post.

I've been out of my boot for a week now. I started some easy hitting yesterday. I have to say it felt pretty good. I don't have pain in my heel, but I'm very tentative on moving on the court. I think that slowly my confidence will grow. I've missed hitting and playing. I'm ready to get going again. I had an acupuncture treatment on Wednesday. Oh my gosh...it was pretty cool! I loved my doctor...Dr. Woo. So funny, and so caring and so sure he could help me. Having never experienced such a thing, I wasn't sure what to expect. At this point in my life, I'll try just about anything.....just about I said. I'd do the acupuncture again in a heartbeat. Whether or not it helps, I don't know, but it's always worth a try.

Today we are picking up the ping pong table we bought on an impulse earlier in the week. "Ping Pong Saturday" starts later today. Ever seen a grown man cry?!? I love to play, as does he. We both grew up playing during rain delays in our junior tournament days. Plus my neighbor across the street where I grew up had one, and I played endlessly there as a kid, taking down all the neighborhood boys!!! I'm sure pictures will follow.

Finally

2010-10-07T13:47:00.005-05:00

It was a frustrating week last week not having my computer working. Seems it was eaten up with bugs and viruses, but it's on the mend. Hopefully the links to the draws helped everyone keep up with Phil's results in Atlanta.

In a nutshell....

I arrived on Tuesday afternoon and was able to see all his matches with the exception of his first round, which he played on Tuesday morning. The second round singles match on Wednesday was the beginning of a tough draw. Phil beat a very good player, Oliver Scott, in three hard sets. He and Tom followed up with a great three set win over a very good doubles team from the Atlanta area. Needless to say by the end of a six set day my nerves were frazzled! Thursday Phil started his round of 16 match against Keith Bannister and was up a set and 2-2 when it started raining. Doubles were cancelled for the rest of the day and singles resumed later in the afternoon. Phil won 4 & 4 against Keith. On to Friday and the quarters of both singles and doubles. In singles Phil played Rob Castori, a first year 55's player who is strong and physical. Unfortunately Phil was struggling with his serve and lost a hard fought three setter against Castori. Not a bad loss, but certainly a winnable match for Phil. Later in the day Phil and Tom played Sal Castillo and Claude England, a pick up team, since Sal's partner didn't make it to the tournament; so Claude substituted in. It was the best doubles match of the tournament with Phil and Tom losing in the third set in a tiebreaker 9-7. Soooo close! My ulcer and I were disappointed they had lost, but it really was a match that could have gone either way.

I know Phil was disappointed not so much in how he competed, because he played his heart out, but just that his serve wasn't there as he needed it to be and that kept him from playing his best. He was away for almost 3 weeks and was ready to come home. He had a great winning week in New York, five days of great practice in Atlanta before the tournament started, then had some great wins and some tough losses at the clay courts. I've said it before, but I am so proud of Phil and his competitive spirit. I love being at his tournaments and watching him not only play, but just hanging around and watching him interact with all his tennis buddies is so much fun. They obviously have a tremendous (and well deserved) amount of respect for Phil not only as a player but also as a person. And it's obvious to me that he feels the same way about his fellow competitiors. As we've said many times before....."it's what we do".

In the car ride on the way home on Saturday, Phil finally exhaled and was exhausted. It took a couple of days for him to rest up, recover and feel better. The weather in Destin is great now and fall tennis is starting to crank up at Hidden Dunes. My foot is healing, but still in the boot. I hope to maybe start hitting again next week. We're not sure what our next events are, but I'll post again soon once we figure it out.

can't post...computer down...follow links on right

2010-09-30T08:53:00.001-05:00

Rainy Start

2010-09-27T15:31:00.003-05:00

The first round of the matches in Atlanta were rained out this morning, so all the matches are rescheduled for the same times tomorrow. Phil will play singles at 12:30 and doubles to follow in the afternoon. As of 3:30 Destin time, the doubles draws haven't been posted. He and Tom may have a bye and not play doubles until Wednesday. As soon as the doubles draw is posted I will put the link to the right of this post.

We had rain yesterday and last night. A cool front came in behind the rain and we're finally getting a reprieve from the oppressive heat. Looks like it's going to be a nice week here and in Atlanta. I'll leave tomorrow morning to drive up, maybe in time to watch doubles if there's a match. I'm really looking forward to getting there and hanging out. If I can't play right now, it'll be fun to watch. I'm taking plenty of crosswords to help ease my nerves while I'm watching. I keep saying that I need to learn to become a better spectator...I'm not sure how, but I'll try to work on it.

I've got my boot in tow and ready to go!

Resting Up

2010-09-24T16:04:00.004-05:00

Phil has spent the last couple of days in Atlanta resting and recovering from his big wins in New York. He and Tom have hit a few and played some doubles just to keep loose and work out the body kinks. Tomorrow he'll get a good workout in with Armistead Neely, which always gets his strokes grooved in. Armi is a machine! Singles play starts on Monday. Phil is seeded fourth in a very strong field of 64 players. He'll have a very tough second round match against a player who has won national titles before. Once again, there will be no easy matches. As of today only the singles draws have been posted. I've added that link to the right of this post. The doubles draws should be out in the next day or so.

I'm wearing my boot as instructed, and I think it's helping. I'm able to ride my bike with no pain, so that's been not only my mode of transportation to work, but also my exercise. I love riding and wonder why I don't do more of it! I'll be traipsing around in the boot for another week and hopefully back on the court soon. Since I don't have any events coming up I can take my time in getting this thing healed.

Double Gold!

2010-09-21T19:04:00.003-05:00

I'm just worn out....even though Phil played the matches, it's been an exhausting week for me. Today especially. Phil called me right before he went on for his final at 11:30 our time. About 25 minutes later, Ann Schwartz texted me that Phil lost the first set 6-1. I wasn't worried at all. I know he can be a slow starter and he was just getting his mojo going. She kept me posted throughout the second set and when he was up a break 5-3, I felt sure he would not only win the set, but the match. He won the second set 6-3. Phil broke early in third only to be broken back. He then broke and held to go up 5-3. Andrew held for 4-5. Phil, serving for the match, said he then served the best game he's served all tournament, and held at love to win the match! Between texts I was nervously pacing around the pro shop, inside and out. When I got the word on my screen "Phil won!" I just broke down in tears of joy. I know I'm a sentimental baby, but I also know all the hard work that has gone into preparing for this past week, and I just couldn't be happier for him.

Phil and Tom were able to catch an earlier flight back to Atlanta tonight. Hopefully he'll be able to get a couple of days rest before getting ready for play on Monday. We both wish he were coming home now, but it just made more sense for him to stay on in Atlanta. Besides, originally I was supposed to be in California playing my hard court nationals. I'll be driving to Atlanta early next week to watch him play and then we'll be return home together...perhaps with more gold?

I'll post again once Atlanta starts up. I'll also post links to the draws when they are released...probably by Thursday or Friday...check back for up dates!

an update on my heel....
since the cortisone injection didn't seem to make much of a difference, Dr. Donchey has decided to put me in boot, to take all the pressure off my heel. He just wants to calm the inflammation and try to reduce the pain on impact. I'll probably be in it for at least two weeks, and he may still inject it again. I've been able to ride my bike with no pain so I'll continue to do that for my cardio workouts since I'll be off the court for a while. I can still work out with Geoff to keep my fitness level up too. Hopefully this plan of attack will work and I'll be back on the court again soon.

Winning Ways

2010-09-20T18:42:00.003-05:00

Phil has played five singles matches in four days. One on Saturday, two on Sunday and two today. Not to mention the four doubles matches he played in three days between Thursday and Saturday. A true testament that the fitness workouts with Geoff are paying big dividends. Today were the quarters and semis of the singles.

In his quarterfinal match this morning, Phil lost the first set 6-3. He was down a break in the second set, only to break back. He had noticed his opponent kept holding his arm in pain throughout the match. Phil knew that if he could hold on and win the second set, the guy wouldn't be able to stay strong for a third. Phil was able to fight off three match points and get to a tiebreaker. At 2-2 in the second set tiebreaker, his opponent had to retire due to injury. A win, is a win....he was on to the semis now. As I suspected would happen, the tournament decided to play the semis this afternoon, instead of waiting to play the semis and finals tomorrow. His doubles partner, Tom, won his semifinal round too. Once again, Phil and Tom would square off. I was nervous as a could be.

The match started at 2:30 our time. I stayed busy at work until I finally heard from him around 4:45. He had won!!! 6-2, 2-6, 6-4. I actually cried tears of joy! One more match to go! The finals are scheduled for tomorrow at 12:30 EST. It'll be a nerve wracking time waiting the results but my fingers and toes will be crossed for luck! No matter the outcome, Phil has had a phenomenal tournament. Win, lose or draw, I'm so very proud of him!

Two Match Day

2010-09-19T19:32:00.004-05:00

When Phil called this morning before his first match, I could tell he felt better than yesterday. He's still fighting his chest congestion, but his energy level was better. He had no scouting report on his first opponent, which can always be unnerving. Fortunately Phil took care of business and won 6-1, 6-1. His round of 16 match was scheduled later in the afternoon against a tough, scrappy player. Phil knew he'd have his work cut out for him. To distract myself from worrying too much, I rode my bike to work and hit with Renee. My foot is still an issue, but it is a little better. Just as I got home and cooled off, Phil called to say he had won 6-3, 6-4. YEA!!! He was very happy to have this match in the books and done. He now plays the quarters tomorrow morning at nine. According to the current draw posted, there is only one match scheduled tomorrow....that would leave semis and finals for Tuesday. Either way, he'll be ready to play.

Both our cars have been hand washed and vacuumed, and the garage cleaned out. Look out back porch!

Two pictures added to the "My Favorite Things" side bar....scroll down to see

One Match

2010-09-18T18:33:00.004-05:00

It's only normal to have a let down after winning such a big match the day before. Phil was fighting the onset of a chest cold the day before he left Destin for New York. The congestion settled in, but he's been dealing with it through the week. Today was a tough day to get pumped up, but because Phil is so experienced and determined, he fought his way through a 6-4, 6-4 win, against a player he would normally beat 2 & 2. Luckily he only had one match today, and took the rest of the afternoon to rest and do laundry. The matches will only be getting tougher from here on. There are two rounds scheduled tomorrow, beginning at 9:00.

Gold Ball Day!

2010-09-17T19:28:00.004-05:00

After the storms cleared from yesterday, play resumed on the grass courts at Forest Hills. The singles were postponed until tomorrow so the doubles could play out. Phil and Tom won their first match, the semis, in straight sets, 6-4, 6-4. I was so excited for them! I get so nervous between phone calls knowing that he is on the court playing. I just try to keep busy to keep my mind occupied. During his semis today, I started working in the yard....mowing, weed whacking, edging....hearing the news they were in the finals and were playing in the next half hour, I knew I needed to find a new project. I had the carpet cleaned today, and needed to put the furniture back together that I had moved out of the way. So off I go, just trying to keep busy. After I had showered and noticed the time, I started getting worried. No call. Finally Phil called to say they had won! It was three sets....they lost the first set 6-4, then came back to win 6-2, 6-3. Another gold ball! I am so proud of him. He's worked so hard and it's so gratifying to see the reward of hard work.

Now the singles starts tomorrow. He and Tom can enjoy their win tonight, then it's back to work around noon on Saturday. I'll have to find more projects to do to keep busy between the phone calls....our cars need washing.....

Stormy Thursday in NY

2010-09-16T18:31:00.004-05:00

Phil and Tom won their first round of doubles yesterday easily. Today there were two rounds scheduled. They won their early afternoon quarterfinal round in three tough sets. The semifinals were to be played later in the afternoon, but the other matches were running late, and weather was moving in. The semis were rescheduled for Friday so Phil and Tom left the club to head back to their hotel. Phil called later to say they were in their car just leaving Westside Tennis Club in Forest Hills, and a tornado had hit. They were stuck with downed power lines and tress all around them. Everyone was fine, but it was a scary situation. After emergency help came and cleared the area, they drove back to the club, where the storm had caused significant damage. There's a question as to what will happen to the rest of the tournament. Below is a statement from the tournament home page:

Tornado Damage
Forest Hills has been hit by a tornado. Fortunately there were no injuries at the club however the courts have sustained significant damage. Due to extensive damage to the clay courts ALL CONSOLATION MATCHES HAVE BEEN CANCELLED FOR THE DURATION OF THE EVENT. We will not be able to get the courts playable. The grass courts sustained less damage and will probably be playable but at present, we do not know when. Updates will be posted as they are available.

I'm anxiously awaiting word from Phil on what their next move is. I'm so thankful that no one was hurt and hope that they can return safely to their hotel.

I'll post again when I hear from Phil.

UPDATE: 8:20 p.m. CST
Phil and Tom are still at the club, waiting for roads and traffic to clear so they can make it back to the hotel. As of tonight, all singles matches scheduled for tomorrow have been postponed. They will try to play two doubles matches if the courts are playable. The tournament officials will be able to further assess the damage in the morning.

Injury Wins

2010-09-12T16:35:00.002-05:00

There must be a reason the tennis Gods don't want me playing any more nationals this year. For the third national in a row, I've had to pull out. First, in May, was my heart issue the day before leaving for Chicago for the indoors. Still recovering from the heart procedure, I wasn't ready in July for the grass in Philadelphia, and now my heel is keeping me out of the hard courts in Salinas. Needless to say, I am very disappointed. I was hoping to be able to go and at least play doubles. Knowing the level of competition, and even playing with a great player like Fran, I would not be able to move and hold up my end of the court. I've been getting treatment from Bob at physical therapy for about 4 weeks with no improvement. I talked to Dr. Donchey, our sports med doc, who ordered an MRI to rule out some things, which came back normal. The pain is in an isolated spot on my right heel and is very painful when my heel hits the ground, which includes just walking around. We're thinking now it might be a bone bruise. I see Dr. Donchey on Tuesday again and hope to figure it out. I'm just ready to stop hurting all the time. Renee and I have played some fun doubles, even with me hobbling around the court. I figure if I'm going to hurt whether I do something or not, I might as well do what I can do.

Phil has been working hard getting ready for his two upcoming nationals, the grass and clay. He leaves on Tuesday for New York to play his grass courts, then returns to Atlanta to play the clay courts, which start a few days later. Since I'm not going to California for my tournament, I'll try to join Phil in Atlanta for the end of the clay courts. Until then I'll work on getting my heel healed, and cheer Phil on from afar. He has been working very hard on and off the court to prepare for his upcoming events. I can sense him getting into his tournament mode of thinking. Phil's tournaments will be tough, and I know he will compete well and do well.

We've enjoyed watching the US Open these past two weeks. What great matches! Happy to see Clijsters win, and pulling for Nadel to win this afternoon. We'll be going through withdrawal from tennis on TV every night once it's over.

I've put links to Phil's draws to the right of these posts. I'll also continue to post on his matches as the week goes on. He and Tom have a first round doubles match on Wednesday afternoon. Singles will start on Friday.

Back in the Swing of Things

2010-08-14T14:23:00.002-05:00

We arrived home Tuesday evening and we're glad to be back. Traveling is fun, but there's nothing like coming home. Back to work on Wednesday, and it was like we were never gone. Renee and Jerry did a great job, as usual, of taking care of business. I would never feel comfortable leaving for any length of time if I didn't feel like everything at work was taken care of. Having a competent, experienced staff is priceless.

I had a check up with my cardiologist on Thursday to start me on a new medication. We think the culprit of my bout with hives was attributed to the MulTaq I was taking for the atrial flutters. I've started a new drug and hope this will do the trick without the itch! I'm also nursing a bit of plantar faciitis on my heel. I need for the pain to go away quickly in my heel. Phil and I have invited some of our tennis buddies down for a long weekend of practice. We both have national tournaments in September that we are getting ready for. It will be great to get some practice sessions in with our friends. Fran Chandler and Shelly Works will be here, along with Shelly's husband, Scott, and Armistead Neely. Promises to be a super weekend fun tennis and fellowship!

My next post will be closer to mid September as I prepare to leave for Salinas, California. Barring any unforeseen illness or injury I'll be heading out on September 18th. Until then....

In Little Rock

2010-08-09T08:51:00.004-05:00

Let's see...I'm losing track of days and time. We left St. Louis yesterday, Sunday, after a somewhat successful last day of the tournament on Saturday.....

I won my third and final match love and love. It was unfortunate that the competition wasn't all that tough. But I used the matches to work on my serving (which I had been having trouble with), work on my focus, and work on placement of shots. Any matches I can get right now are good matches, regardless of the level. Phil squeaked through his semis on Saturday morning against Tom. Tom dominated the first set 6-1, then at some point while leading in the second set he pulled a high rib cage muscle, which made serving very difficult. At 5-5 in the second set Tom retired knowing that if he won he wouldn't be able to play the singles and doubles final that were to follow. Phil then played the singles final against Sal Castillo and lost love and two. Phil didn't play very well, and Sal is just plain tough. Tom was able to play the doubles final, (Phil's third match of the day) and they won 6-0, 7-6. It was all in all a good tournament for all of us. Our goals were to get matches under our belt and get ready for our fall nationals. Mission accomplished.

My brother and Elise were just great throughout the week we were there. Having them there at our matches was really special. I know my Mom would have just loved to have been there with all of us together.

We dropped Tom at the airport Sunday morning and headed out on our seven hour drive from St. Louis to Little Rock. We got in town around 4:30 and came straight to Sharon and Steve's house where we're staying. Oh my gosh!!! One of the most beautiful, tastefully decorated homes I've ever seen. It is just amazing. A good dinner out last night, and early to bed as we were whipped. Today has been a whirlwind of trying to fit in everything I wanted to do in only one day. Top of the list were:

eat a Shipley Donut's....best chocolate filled donuts ever, great childhood memories!
multiple visits to the columbarium at the church where my parents are buried
driving by the public courts where I hit my first tennis balls (Walker Tennis Center)
going to the Little Rock Racquet Club, where I spent hundreds of hours hitting tennis balls and swimming
standing on the court my Dad and I hit countless tennis balls on
seeing my best friend Melissa, that I haven't seen in quite some time

There's just not enough time, but I've made time for everything above. We'll leave early tomorrow morning for Destin. It's about a ten hour drive, but it will give us time to reflect and talk about the past 11 days we've been gone. I have so much to be thankful for, and one of the most important is Phil. He has been such a rock of support for me in so many ways. I am forever grateful for all he has done for me in the short time we've been together.

Back to work and to the real world. I couldn't have made this trip without the support at work with Renee, Jerry and everyone else who has pitched in to cover while we've been gone.

Catching Up

2010-08-06T14:43:00.002-05:00

Yesterday started early and finished late, so I wasn't able to post. We had a brief delay in matches getting started due to overnight thunderstorms. I went on around 11:15 and won easily love and love. She was a very nice girl from St. Louis. I played well, and was just too strong for her. After I finished we left for the clay court site in another part of the park. Both Phil and Tom are playing on the clay, while I'm on the hard courts. Tom got a walkover and Phil won easily love and love. We grabbed some lunch, then headed back to the hotel to shower before their 8:00p.m. doubles match. Their opponents were good, solid players, but Tom and Phil were better on the big points and won 6-3, 6-3. We returned back to the hotel after 10:00 and hit the hay.

Today I had the early match at 9:30, with both Phil and Tom playing at 11:00. I got on few minutes early and finished in about 45 minutes, winning love and love again. Both girls I've played were good club 4.0 players and both very nice. Tomorrow I'll play my third and final match in the morning. I had a great cheering section....Don and Arlys Dayton and Norris Flagler, part of the Hidden Dunes winter tennis family that live in the St. Louis area, came out to watch my match, then went with me to watch Phil and Tom play their singles matches. It's always nice to have familiar faces in the crowd (not that there was a crowd....but you know what I mean).

Phil had a tough opponent today. Ray Pascale grew up a few years ahead of me in the Arkansas tennis world. He's a big lefty, that can be very dangerous. Phil played smart, controlled tennis, and won 6-3, 6-3. I was very proud of his effort today. Tom won his match in three sets. Now Tom and Phil play against each other in the semis tomorrow morning. They usually have epic battles against each other. But first they have a doubles semis to play this afternoon against Ray Pascale and Mel Collazo. Phil and Tom have a win over them from the Atlanta tournament in May. Just as Ray is dangerous in singles, Mel and Ray as a team are equally dangerous. Should be a great match.

My brother has been able to come out and watch most of our matches. He hasn't seen me play competitively in over twenty years. He and his girlfriend, Elise, have been great supporters during our stay here. Elise's mom even came out to watch today! It's always good to reconnect with family. I wish we could see each other more often. I miss my family.

Tomorrow will be a the final day, then we'll head out on part three of our road trip....maybe a stop in Little Rock on the way home.

Fast Forward

2010-08-04T08:56:00.002-05:00

The five days spent in Columbus are a blur. In a nut shell...we practiced on hard courts, Phil played with some of his buddies, had dinner with his boys a few nights, had dinner and lunch with John (his close friend) got a few crushed ice drinks at Tim Horton's (Phil's personal favorite), worked on getting Phil's condo rented, which looks very promising, cleaned the condo thoroughly to prepare it for being rented, then drove to St. Louis last night, arriving around 10:00 p.m. Needless to say we slept very well and are happy to be here on part 2 of our road trip.

I am most happy to report that my hives have subsided. I've got a couple of small patches on the inside of my arms that feels like it could flare at any time, but for the better part of three nights I've had no problem. During my miserable night in Columbus on Thursday I researched more on the Internet. It seems that many people with this condition found relief by combining Zyrtec (allergy med) and Zantac (antacid med) both over the counter. They both contain different antihistamines. I started on it first thing Friday morning and that seemed to be the beginning of the end for me. Let's hope so!

We are staying at the Marriott at Union Station. Awesome hotel! Today we'll practice, then pick up Phil's doubles partner, Tom Smith, who is flying in from Atlanta. Tonight we're going to a Cardinals baseball game. Yea!!! Then the tournament starts for us tomorrow. My draw shrunk from 5 players to 4 when Mariana Hollman dropped out. Our draw will be a round robin, and I'll play one match each day. It has been incredibly hot here, so we'll have stay hydrated and be prepared for the heat. Phil's draw has some really strong players. We both need matches so this is a good start for our fall tournaments.

My brother lives here, so it's an added bonus to get to spend some time with him and his family. We'll be with them at the game tonight and I'm sure throughout the week we'll get together as time allows.

No Humidity

2010-07-30T17:44:00.003-05:00

We arrived in Columbus yesterday right on schedule, but not without a little excitement throughout the day.

Stan picked us up around 9 a.m. for our 11:30 flight out of Panama City. All was well until we were about 15 miles from the airport. I heard a slight clunk sound, felt the a.c. stop working and then heard Stan quietly mutter, "oh s**t". As he was watching the temperature gauge rise to hot, he figured it was a belt or something along those lines. As we approached a major intersection, and were only about 10 miles from the airport, Stan dropped us at a Shell station where we called a cab to take us the rest of the way to the airport. We made it fine with plenty of time to spare, and Stan was able to get to a fix it shop, where he then had the car towed back to Ft. Walton so his "fix it" guy could work on it. Our flights were uneventful. However.....

Upon landing in Atlanta, Phil had a message from his brother, Laile, that his sister, Linda, had had a heart attack. WHAT???? So we spent a good deal of time in the Atlanta airport getting details on her and how she was doing. We thought we might be landing in Columbus only to get on a plane to head to Denver. After talking to everyone we needed to speak with, we felt like she was out of the woods and there was no reason for us to go to Denver. Today she is resting comfortably after have two stents put in. They are now treating a blood clot as well. We hope she'll be home from the hospital the first of next week. Whew! Thank you Lord!

We had dinner with Phil's two son's and daughter in law last night. It was great to see them. I know Phil worries about them, and misses them when he's away. They have very busy professional and social lives and both love to travel. It's interesting to hear about all they do. Endless energy and always looking for their next adventure....always fun to see them.

I was hoping for a good nights sleep, and was so tired from being up the night before itching. I fell asleep fast, only to wake up around 2 a.m. with the hives itching again. MISERABLE is the only way to describe it. A severe itch, from the inside out. Nothing helps to ease the crawling, burning itch from within. I've taken the pills and followed doctors orders, but to no avail. Finally around 5:15 this morning the episode subsided and I was able to sleep. I've felt pretty good today, despite the rough night.

Phil and I had a good breakfast at my favorite spot, ran some errands, then headed over to Ohio State to hit some balls on the hard courts. The weather is spectacular right now. Very low humidity with temps in the low 80's. A very welcome relief from the sweltering heat and humidity in Destin. While we're here we've got some practices and matches scheduled. Looks like we'll try to leave for St. Louis on Tuesday afternoon, as long as we get everything here done as planned.

I'm praying for a no itch night tonight!

Itching to Play

2010-07-29T04:20:00.012-05:00

It's very early on Thursday morning. We are flying out of the new Panama City airport mid morning today to start our venture through the Midwest. I am up extra early thanks to an ongoing horrible itchy, hive rash that has consumed my arms, legs and neck. In fact I'm going on day 13 of dealing with this monster. Since the onset of these devil hives, I've been prescribed and treated with creams, lotions, steroid pills, steroid shot, itchy pills, ice. You name it, I've tried it. I get some relief, but no cure yet. The suspected culprit that is causing this is my heart medication, which I've been off of for a bout seven days now. If I could just get my skin to stop feeling like it's crawling! It's driving me crazy. Actually the past two days have been ok, but I wake up around 2 in the morning just itching like a mad dog. I really thought I was better when I went to bed last night. Oh well...what are ya gonna do...just itch I guess.

Back to our road trip.....so we're flying to Columbus this morning to spend four or five days checking on Phil's condo, seeing his boys, seeing all his friends and buddies that I know he misses and most importantly getting his car (which has been sitting in the parking garage up there for the past few months). On Wednesday, we'll drive to St. Louis, about 7 hours, to play in the National Public Parks tournament. My brother and his family live in St. Louis, so it will be fun to see everyone and also great fun to catch a Cardinals baseball game! Our tentative plans from St. Louis are to drive to Little Rock for a day or so. I'd really like to see my Mom and Dad's grave site at the church. From Little Rock, we'll trek on back to Destin. I preface all this driving by saying that Phil is not accustomed to lot's of driving. He thinks the 6 mile drive to work everyday is a road trip in itself! So we'll see how this all pans out. I have a feeling though that once we're out on the open road, it will be fun. Definitely what we call "memory making" times! Everyday will be a new adventure!

We're both eager to play a tournament. Seems like we've been on the practice court forever and now it's time to put it all to good use. Neither of us has played as many matches as we would have liked by now, and we are being realistic about our goals for this tournament. This tournament will be a good stepping stone and barometer for getting us ready for our upcoming fall nationals. It's important for us to keep it all in perspective.

The links to the draws are to the right of this posting. I'll be posting all week, and look forward to the day I can say I'm itch free. Until then, I'll keep on scratchin'!

Keep Off the Grass

2010-07-01T18:01:00.002-05:00

After much thought and soul searching I've decided to not play the grass court nationals in Philadelphia. I felt like I was still struggling with my fitness level on court. My breathing has continued to be labored during my workouts. In addition I felt like I was putting too much pressure on myself to "hurry up" and get ready for the tournament, which in my mind translated to being tournament ready in short time. Phil and I talked at length, weighing the pros and cons. I just couldn't come up with enough "pros" to make the decision to go. Thankfully since we've made the decision, I feel much more at ease with my practices and feel like I can properly prepare for my next tournament. I'm not exactly sure when that will be. It quite possibly could be the National Public Parks tournament in St. Louis in early August. Phil and I both can play in this Category II national. It's so important for us to have a goal to work toward. We both plan to play our fall Category I nationals in September and October.

A smattering of tar balls have appeared on our beaches. We've also been in a very rainy pattern the past few days. With the holiday weekend approaching we need to have clear weather and clean beaches!

Matters of the Heart

2010-06-25T14:47:00.002-05:00

I had a good report from Dr. Phlaum on Wednesday. He feels like the medication is working to keep away any residual flutters I'd been having. The best news is that I don't have to wear the portable monitor anymore! I gladly packed that baby up and sent it back that afternoon. I'll be on the meds for about 3 months then see him again. I'm free to do whatever I feel like doing. Yea! I've continued my workouts with Geoff, and amping up my practices on the court. I need to decide by the weekend if I'm going to be ready for the grass court nationals in early July. I'm just not sure if I'll be ready to play by then. I'll sleep on it a couple of more days, then decide.

The oil situation is obviously a big topic of concern and conversation for everyone here. Business wise, I think we've been affected some. It seems like vacationers are taking a wait and see approach, depending on the news reports (which paint a very bleak and ugly scenario), and word of mouth. Our beaches are still beautiful, and I think for quite some time we'll have good days and bad days, depending on the winds and the tides. Yes it is a horrible, catastrophic event, but we are open for business and there is plenty to do if you can't go to the beach for a day or two!
Below is the latest swimming advisory posted in the NW Florida Daily News.

Latest on swimming in the Gulf....

Walton beaches open to swimming
June 25, 2010 11:15 AM

Daily News
WALTON COUNTY — Beaches from Miramar Beach access point eastward to the east end of Topsail State Park are open to the public for swimming.
According to an Okaloosa County Sheriff's press release, the health department has rescinded their health advisory after two consecutive high tides have shown no oil sheen or oil slick.
Officials observed in the water from the high water mark out to 100 yards from shore, the release said.
The waters will continue to be monitored for impacts from the Deepwater Horizon oil spill.

Here We Go Again?

2010-06-18T15:06:00.003-05:00

We finished our first full week back with Geoff, and I'm so glad we started again. As I begin to feel more fit on the court, I will regain some of the confidence I've lost from being off a month. A month off isn't all that long, but it amazes me how my stamina has decreased in such a relatively short time. I know, I know,...I had a major procedure, yada, yada, yada,...but I just feel like I should be stronger by now. It only motivates me to work harder and harder to get there. My conditioning and stamina have always been my strong points. Because Phil and I have been on the court each day, I'm really "striking" the ball well, which we both feel is such a cliche thing to say, but it really is true. I'm hitting very well, moving fairly well, and playing points so-so. My serve feels better than it has in a long time, as does my overhead. I've just got to get my wind back.

As I've said before, since my ablation I have been having a few flutters. I've only had to punch the button on my heart monitor once, but I have also been having these weird sensations. Unlike my original flutters of a fast, hard, heartbeat in my throat, this feels like my heart is building up a sneeze that won't come. Then it subsides. Evidently this has been registering on the monitor because the heart lab called Dr. Phlaum, who in turn called me. Over the phone he said my heart rate was getting as high as 180. He's put me back on the antiarrhythmic medicine, which I hate because not only does it slow my heart rate down, it makes me very lethargic. He also wants to see me next week, rather than waiting until next month for my scheduled appointment. I have a feeling we may be discussing the possibility of doing something to the slow pathway side that Dr. Verma wanted to stay away from with the catheter ablation. I'm a litle (no, alot) disappointed in all this, but I'm not going to worry too much about it until I see him on Wednesday. Phil and I have been doing everything right as far as eating and exercising goes. We'll continue on this path no matter what. I'm determined to not go backwards with my recovery process and will do all I can to heal myself. The rest is up to the good doctors and God.
Here we go again?

Going Forward

2010-06-14T14:40:00.002-05:00

My checkup appointment with Dr. Phlaum went well last Thursday. He seemed to think that I was doing great, and released me to do whatever I felt like doing. I explained that I was getting winded easily on the court, but we both agreed it was more a fitness conditioning issue rather than a heart issue. He assured me that my heart muscle and valves were all in great working condition with no problems at all. I told him I had experienced a few flutters since the ablation. I knew there was a chance that would happen, and I haven't be overly alarmed about them. He did put me back on the portable heart monitor for two weeks to see if we can track the activity. Since I've had the monitor, I've had one episode of fluttering. I'm scheduled to see him again in about a month. I know there is an ever so slight chance that I may have to have an additional procedure done if proven necessary by the monitor. Until then I'll just keep on keepin' on.

Today Phil and I started our workouts with Geoff. I was so glad to get that going again. I don't know yet when my first tournament will be. Still thinking about the grass courts which is about 4-5 weeks away. It's just a good feeling to be back working out. Phil and I have continued to hit daily as well. We have made a commitment to get in the best shape we can, by eating healthier and exercising more. It can only help our overall health and improve our tennis. It's wonderful to have such an encouraging and supportive partner who has the same interests and passions for doing things as I do. I love my life!

We've been to the beach a couple of afternoons this week. The water and beaches are just beautiful. A little seaweed, but that's about it. The news reports continue to be very grim. Pictures of oil filled waters from Orange Beach and Pensacola remind us that it's not that far away from us. It seems inevitable that we will be affected. We just don't know to what degree.

Turned the Corner

2010-06-06T15:09:00.003-05:00

I finally heard from Tracey, in Dr. Verma's office, around 6:30 Thursday evening. She didn't seem overly concerned about my fatigue issues. She said that my heart was working hard to find it's new beating pathways, combined with the anesthesia and blood thinner, and it was a recipe, at least in my case, for being so tired. I think just hearing that it wasn't out of the ordinary helped me relax about it. I woke up on Friday with a new outlook and new attitude. Phil and I hit for about 15 minutes on Friday, 3o minutes on Saturday and about 50 minutes today. Mind you, it's very light and easy hitting, with quite a few breaks, but at least I'm back out there. My energy level is good and I'm able to make it through each day now. I have a check up with Dr. Phlaum, my cardiologist, on Thursday. I have had a few flutters since the ablation, which they told me to expect. I'm not sure what I'll set my sights on yet for my next tournament. I need to have a "carrot" dangling to get me motivated and have a goal to work for. Grass court nationals are in July, it could be that, or maybe something in August instead. We'll see.

Side note.....
The news seems grim about the oil approaching our coast. Some tarballs have washed up on Okaloosa Island in Ft. Walton. We haven't had any reports of oil yet on our beaches, but time will tell. The pictures from Louisiana of the oil soaked pelicans and other wild life are just heartbreaking.

Tired of being Tired

2010-06-03T14:28:00.002-05:00

It's been a week today that I had the ablation. I really thought by now that I'd be chomping at the bit to be on the court and start working out. Instead I am having prolonged spells of extreme fatigue and lethargicness. Dr. Verma did say that I needed to rest for 5-7 days, but I just wasn't prepared for this feeling of lifelessness at all. Concerned, I called my cardiologist, Dr. Phlaum and explained how I was feeling. Before he sees me, he wanted me to call Dr. Verma's office and let them know what was going on. So that's where I am now, waiting to hear back from Verma's office. I keep thinking this could just be a side bar from the anesthesia, etc. I just want to find my mojo, and zest. Everyday I wake up, I keep thinking this is the day, but by noon I'm just wiped out. Thankfully Phil has been here every step of the way to encourage me, console me and take care of me. I've been taking care of my "God-dog", Little Bit, this week which always brings me joy. She's so sweet and loving and brings a smile to my face. Hope to hear from the doctor soon and will post later what the verdict is.

The Other Side

2010-05-30T19:31:00.003-05:00

I finally made it to the other side of my catheter ablation. The past few days have been a blur. I'm trying to find my energy but it hasn't shown up just yet.

Phil and I made it Pensacola early Thursday morning as scheduled. I was very nervous of the unknown. I was taken back, and prepped for the procedure, then Phil came back and waited with me until it was time. We talked with both the anesthesiologist and Dr. Verma before they took me away. I asked Dr. Verma one more time, "now exactly how many days do I have to be off the court?" I got a roll of the eyes from both Phil and the doctor. He reiterated that I needed a good 5-7 days of rest before easing back into activity. Fine. As I was laying in the cath lab, being hooked up to umpteen monitors, I was trying to think of calming thoughts. I closed my eyes and prayed to God. The last thing I remember was looking one of the four monitors that had the time and date and it was 9:27 a.m.

Next thing I know I'm in recovery and being told to lie still as they were preparing to move me to my room for the night. As I was wheeled to the room I could finally see Phil waiting for me. I was so thankful and happy to see him. It was around 4 in the afternoon by then. Stan and Mary Lu Wagner and John and Marilyn Pittman had come from Destin to Pensacola to sit with Phil during the three hour surgery. It was comforting to know he wasn't waiting by himself, as I knew he was worried about me. Once settled in the room I was pretty much out of it. My throat hurt from the tube down my throat. I had to keep my legs still so the insertion places in my groin would clot and begin to heal. There was also an insertion place on my neck. I wasn't feeling pain, just an extreme sense of being uncomfortable. I had to be repositioned a couple of times during the night. Poor Phil was in a recliner chair attempting rest, and keeping one eye and one ear open, listening for me. More than once he sat next to my bed just holding my hand and stroking my hair until I fell into a restless sleep. He has been a God send through all of this.

Dr. Verma came in early Friday morning, checked me over and signed my release papers. By the time we got out and home it was close to noon. Needless to say, I slept most of the day Friday, as did Phil. Since then I've felt very tired, and sore in the spots where the catheter went in. I'm also on a blood thinner for 3o days. I can see now why Dr. Verma said to take a rest for the first week. I couldn't do anything if I wanted to. I did go with Phil to Hidden Dunes today while he played a doubles match. It was only for a couple of hours, but since we've been home, I've been on the couch or in bed. I'll do the same tomorrow and gradually try to build up time.

Dr. Verma feels like the procedure was successful and time will tell. I see my cardiologist June 10 for my first check up. I'll follow doctors orders until then and hope that my strength and energy continue to improve. Phil has been giving me just enough rope to hang myself, then he's there to remind me that I have to take it easy.

I am so grateful and thankful for the many prayers and well wishes I received from so many people. We had dinner delivered from Evert and Donna Jonsson on Friday night. Pat Merkle and Anne Toone brought dinner tonight. It's just been amazing how everyone has rallied around to help us through this little hiccup in my life. Renee and Jerry have covered work during this very busy holiday weekend. Not the best time for me to be down and out, and certainly not my choice. I expect and intend to make a full recovery and be back working out with Geoff, doing workouts on the courts, and hitting the tournament trail again. I'm just glad to be on the other side.

Finally

2010-05-26T20:28:00.002-05:00

The days were dragging, and now that it's Wednesday night, it's all going too fast! Phil and I had a good hit this morning, then I was off to Ft. Walton to do some quick errands, then back to
Hidden Dunes briefly this afternoon,then a quick mow of the grass, (which I insisted on doing to help burn off the nervous energy that has taken over my body) then we picked up a pizza for dinner,(my personal favorite meal of all time) and now finally sitting down to see if I'll be able to get my mind and body to stop racing long enough to sleep tonight. We have to be at the hospital in Pensacola at 7:30 a.m. with the surgery scheduled for 9:00 a.m.

I've had an elbow surgery and Achilles tendon surgery, and sort of knew what to expect with those procedures. The catheter ablation is a whole new adventure for me and I have no idea what to expect...before,during or after. I do know that I'll be under general anesthesia and it will last at least a couple of hours. We'll stay the night for observation, then home on Friday.

I'll update over the weekend. I do know one thing. With all the well wishes, and prayers that have been passed on, I'm in good hands. I can feel the strength of God's hand that will carry me
through the next 24 hours.

No Oil in Sight

2010-05-22T15:42:00.002-05:00

Phil and I took a quick walk down to the boardwalk at Hidden Dunes to check out the beach. The weather has been beautiful and I just felt a need to smell the salt air. So far we've been very fortunate with the catastrophic oil spill in the Gulf. We had odors from the burning of the oil on the top of the water a couple of days ago, other than that we've had no signs of the spill. I'm not sure for how much longer we'll be lucky and not see the spill, but we can only hope and pray for an answer. It's hard to imagine our beautiful water and beaches marred by such a travesty.

Random Thoughts

2010-05-22T14:06:00.004-05:00

It's only Saturday and it feels like time is standing still. Thursday can't get here quick enough for me. The medication I'm on to slow my heart rate is slowing me down all over. I feel so lethargic and lifeless. Now I can understand why it's best for me to go ahead with the surgery and not stay on the meds. I definitely don't want to feel this way over the long haul. I've been hitting and teaching a little just trying to get through until Thursday. It's still hard to think I missed the indoors for this, but I know I'm doing the right thing. Phil can't do enough for me. He insisted on cutting the grass yesterday, which is actually a labor of love for me. He wasn't taking no for an answer. I have to admit he did a great job. He's vying for a riding lawn mower which I am emphatically against! As long as I'm vertical and breathing we'll keep on pushing.

Yesterday I had a call from our manager, Ron Waters, asking me to come down to his office. He wanted to go over my yearly review. After I got off the court I ran down to meet with him and we went through the review. He had nothing but praise, which is always nice to hear. As I got up to leave he took me through the back office door where the entire HDCA staff was there with a cake congratulating me on my 25th year anniversary at Hidden Dunes. Yes, it's hard to believe that I have been here for 25 years...of course I always say that I was a child prodigy and started working when I was ten! Little did I know when I came to Hidden Dunes fresh out of college that this would be my career. I have been here for more than half my life!! I have seen the growth of not only our property, but also of the entire Emerald Coast. The friendships I have made with owners and guests through the years have been priceless. They have helped me through the toughest times in my life and celebrated the happiest of times. I have no idea what my future holds. I only know that I'm doing exactly what I'm supposed to be doing at this moment in time, surrounded by the people who love and care about me the most. I love Hidden Dunes and I love my job. Here's to the next 25 years!

If I don't post again before Thursdays surgery, I'll try to post over the weekend. Thank you for your prayers.

Here's the Deal

2010-05-19T19:39:00.004-05:00

I had an appointment today in Pensacola with the electrophisiologist. Dr. Verma was very nice, and both Phil and I were very impressed with him. He was extremely thorough with his explanation of exactly what he would be doing. Atrial tachycardia can be treated with medication, but the side effects of the meds over the long haul are not always tolerated by active people. The best course of treatment, in my case, is to bypass the medication and have the catheter ablation. I will go in Thursday, May 27th to Sacred Heart in Pensacola for the 2 hour procedure. They will keep me in overnight for observation then home the next day, a few days of rest, then ease into light activity and I'll be good as new. I'd be lying if I didn't say I was bit nervous. Phil has been wonderfully reassuring and I know that I'm doing what needs to be done. There's no need to let this drag on and become something much more complicated.

I really appreciate the emails and posts of well wishes and prayers. I'll post again to keep everyone up on how things are going.

Change of Heart

2010-05-17T21:24:00.003-05:00

Well, you just never know what type of curve balls life is going to throw at you. Up until about 3:00 this afternoon I was finishing last minute errands, then going home to pack for our trip to Chicago. Phil and I had a great workout on the hard courts again at Sandestin. I'm hitting well, no visible aches and pains...Fran even called just as we were finishing our hit to talk about when and where we'd meet up tomorrow afternoon in Chicago.

Rewind to last Tuesday.....
For quite some time, months, possibly a year or so, I have had this strange sensation in my chest that felt like my heart was beating really fast in my lower throat. It was a racing, fluttering feeling that would come and go fairly quickly. No other symptoms and no rhyme or reason as to why or when they would occur. Just this flutter. Because of the infrequency, I just sort of ignored it and never said anything. For some reason of late, it has been happening more often. I finally mentioned it to Phil and he insisted I see someone. Fortunately one of the cyclist in Robin's group is a cardiologist. I called his office last Tuesday morning, explained who I was and what was going on. In less than a half hour after making that call, I was in Dr. Phlaum's office, had an EKG and an echo cardiogram. Wanting to cover all bases, he put me on a 30 day heart monitor that constantly monitored my heart activity and if I felt an "episode" then I pushed a button and it sent a message to a lab to pay specific attention to my heart activity at that moment. I had to push the button twice this week.

Fast forward back to today....
I'm at the Commons with Phil when I get a call from Dr. Phlaum's office. He'd like to talk to me. We head straight to his office. The activity on my heart monitor shows that I've got atrial tachycardia. Basically it has to do with the electrical system in my heart that causes it to throw my heart beats out of whack and make my heart beat too fast. It's treatable, and as he says, it's "serious but not dangerous"...in other words not life threatening but needs to be addressed.
He asked how important the tournament was. I told him it was a national and important, but nothing was more important than my health. What would he tell his wife to do if it were her having to make the decision to go to Chicago. He said he'd tell her not to go, and get this taken care of. That was all I needed to hear. Case closed. I will see an electrophisiologist to have a catheter ablation that will take care of the cells that are sending the wrong messages to my heart. A routine procedure that will keep me in overnight. Now the question is where and when will this happen.

I've talked to my brother who feels like the best EP docs in the world are in St. Louis and he'd like me to come up there. I'll let him and Dr. Phlaum talk tomorrow and whatever and wherever they decide is fine with me. I just want to get it done and move on. Needless to say I'm very disappointed to not be able to go to Chicago. Although the field was going to be one of the strongest I've ever seen in a national, I was ready to go! I've withdrawn from the tournament, cancelled flights and hotel and now just waiting for my next move.

There is a reason for everything that happens in life, good or bad. I'll just take this as a sign from God that I need to take care of me first. Tennis tournaments will be there for me when I'm heart healthy again. Just goes to show....if you want to make God laugh, make a plan!

I'll update more as I know more.

Getting Ready for Chicago

2010-05-15T08:29:00.003-05:00

I've spent this week getting focused on Chicago. The tournament will be incredibly tough in both singles and doubles. I'm looking forward to playing with Fran in doubles. I play my first match on Wednesday, but the draws haven't been posted, only first round match times. Some tournaments feel that if they post the draws too early, some players may look at their draws and based on who they will be playing, decide to not to show up. I personally like to know, but it really doesn't matter. I'll be prepared no matter who I play. Since this is an indoor hard court tournament, Phil and I have been able to go over to Sandestin a few times this week to hit on the hard courts. I don't seem to have a problem adapting to the surface. The indoor lighting may take a little getting used to. One thing I for sure won't miss is all the wind. It seems like we've had pretty stout winds for days now. Wind makes for a very frustrating practice session, but on the other hand, these same winds are keeping the oil spill away from us. Keep on blowin'!

We fly out Tuesday morning and have an indoor practice court reserved for Tuesday afternoon. Half the fun of these tournaments is seeing all my tennis buddies. The best part is being able to share all this with my favorite "tennis buddy"!

Third Place

2010-05-10T08:47:00.004-05:00

Phil says that playing for third and fourth is like kissing your sister. In fact, not many of the men players play the playoff, or even the back draws if they lose early. I guess in their minds, second place is the first loser and that's not good enough. While I understand not winning is tough, I still think the more matches you can play the better off you are, even if it's in the back draw or a playoff. Phil knew he needed matches so he and Tom played their playoff match, and I'm really glad they did. It was against two guys from Little Rock that I grew up with. Actually they're a bit older than me, but Arkansas tennis was small in numbers so we all knew each other. I just wanted one match where Phil felt like he played well, or at least saw improvement.

A cool weather front moved through Atlanta overnight on Saturday so we woke up to much cooler weather on Sunday. It was very refreshing and as the day warmed up, it was just beautiful. Perfect tennis weather. We had arranged for Scott Dockter to meet us at Cherokee at nine so he and I could get a good workout in before Phil's match at eleven. Luckily we were able to hit on the hard courts to help prepare me for next week in Chicago. I got a great hit with Scott. Phil got his warm up in by hitting with a couple of players who were getting ready for singles finals. After a quick shower I settled in to watch Phil and Tom play.

They started out pretty good...although Tom wasn't returning well. It was a tight set with Phil and Tom losing in a tiebreaker. ARGGHHH! I was already thinking what a long ride home it was going to be if things didn't turn around. Just as the first set ended, some of Tom's tennis students came out to watch. Tom's game and energy picked up tremendously. Phil fed off Tom's renewed energy. Phil had been serving well, but both their overall games and focus really picked up and they won the second set 6-1. I'm a bit superstitious sometimes and I told Tom's students that nobody moves, and nobody leaves from their spots. The karma in the match changed when they arrived and now they had to stay through the end. Thankfully they did, and Phil and Tom won the third set 6-3. I was happy with Phil's play, but predictably he was not as thrilled as I was. He still feels tentative on some shots, particularly returns, but he did admit to feeling better on his serve. Yea! something positive!

I know what it feels like to not be playing well and to play nervously and tentative. But I also know that it is something you can overcome. I have full confidence in Phil and his ability. You don't win 26 gold balls by allowing your nerves to get the best of you. Time on the court and match play have a way of calming the nerves and allowing you to play freely. We'll just keep on keeping on....working out with Geoff, drilling on the court, and playing tournaments as we can.
It's what we do.

Doubles Semis

2010-05-08T21:00:00.003-05:00

We started our day at Bitsy Grant Tennis Center meeting, meeting a "kid" Phil once coached years ago in Columbus. Of course the "kid"...aka Scott Dockter, age 43, is no longer a kid. Nonetheless, we had a good hit with Scott before heading over to Cherokee to watch some matches and wait for Phil's doubles. Another treat today was seeing Phil's oldest son, Philip. He, by chance, flew in town for a wedding this afternoon. He took a cab from the airport to the courts to spend a little time with Phil. He couldn't stay for the match, but I know Phil really appreciated Philip coming from the airport to the courts, before beginning his weekend of fun.

We watched Phil's partner, Tom, play his semis match against Andrew Rae. Tom played very well, and won the first set 6-4, then went on to lose 6-2, 6-3. I warmed Phil up while Tom ate lunch. I was anxious for them to get started. I had a good feeling about today. I knew they'd have a very tough match, but I could see Phil was psyched and ready to go. Phil started serving the match and had a strong hold. Phil and Tom played very well the first set. Castori and Reid were caught off guard by Phil and Tom's aggressive play. The set went by quickly to the good guys 6-2. After an early break in the second, a volley poach by Tom was returned in desperation by Reid, and a red flag went up in my mind. Matches can turn on shots like that. Sure enough, the guys were broken back, and went on to lose the second set in a tiebreaker. The third set got off to a great start with Phil and Tom up a break at 3-0. Slowly but surely the lead slipped away, and they ended up losing the match 6-4 in the third. I could sense Phil's disappointment in a huge way. He's frustrated right now, and I just wanted so much for him to walk off this court with that confident feeling again. I thought he returned well, and served well, but knowing you're up a break and can't close out a match is maddening. We've all been there, and there are no words to ease the disappointment.

Tomorrow is a new day. Just so they can get in one more matche they'll play the playoff for 3 & 4 in the morning. We'll shower and head back to Destin after the match. It's been a fun week of tennis, both playing and spectating. After a week at home, we'll pack up and head to Chicago for my tournament.

Getting Match Tough

2010-05-07T18:17:00.004-05:00

Watching is so much harder than playing. I know I've said it over and over...I've got to learn to be a better spectator and not live, breath, and play every point. I walk away from watching Phil's matches feeling as though I've been the one out there battling. I want him to play well and feel good about how he played....win or lose. With yesterdays win, he didn't feel good about the way he played and after today's match with Tom, he still feels like he is struggling with hitting out on the ball.

Phil and Tom have played a few times in years past with Phil winning. Given the fact that Phil has not been playing tournaments and is lacking what we call being "tournament tough", I thought he played fairly well. I could see times where he was confident and going for his shots and I could also sense his tentativeness on certain shots that he usually goes for. Tom played very well, and served especially well. He took the first set 6-3. Phil hung in the second set, breaking Tom at 4-4, to be serving for the set at 5-4. Phil lost his serve in a game that went way too fast. I just knew that if Phil could split, he would win the third. Serves were held and the second set went to a tiebreaker. Tom played well in the breaker and won the breaker 7-3 to win the match. I knew Phil would be very disappointed in himself. As a player, I know there are no words I can say that can ease the disappointment of a loss. I should know, I've lost way more times in my career than Phil ever thought about! All you can do is allow yourself to be disappointed for a while, think about what you might have done that worked and didn't work, then move on. Easier said than done, but in the big scheme of things it is a game and we have to keep it all in perspective.

To Phil's credit, he rebounded well this afternoon. He and Tom played doubles and won fairly easily, 6-2, 6-4. Tom plays his singles semis mid morning with the doubles to follow in the afternoon. They'll have their hands full with Rob Castori and Horace Reid. Phil and I are going over to Bitsy Grant to get a work out in early in the morning before heading over to Cherokee to watch the singles. I leave in about 10 days for Chicago for my Indoor Nationals. I'll be match tough just from watching and "playing" all of Phil's matches!

Working Crosswords

2010-05-06T19:49:00.002-05:00

I had to really put my mind into my USA Today crossword to keep my nerves down.

Phil and I had a great warm up this morning at Bitsy Grant. No one really knew who his opponent was and thought it'd be a routine first round. The weather was sunny and very warm. After a routine warm up the match started and I started my crossword. Phil started the match serving, and was broken right off. My head stayed down and I knew the score of every game, but I tried to focus on solving clues at the same time. Phil broke back right away and after that they both held to get to six all. Chris was serving bombs, had an unpredictable drop shot, and could slap shot winners off his forehand. Phil played well and served well in spurts. He was by far the better player, but it not having played many competitive matches lately was showing a little. Phil was able to get some mini breaks in the breaker to win the tiebreaker and take the first set.

I relaxed a little as I saw Phil's confidence grow. He broke early and was leading 3-1 in the second set. Chris seemed to be wilting and Phil was rolling....and the answers to the crossword were becoming clearer to me. Then Phil was broken and Chris picked his game back up and played well enough to win the second set 7-5. I could see Phil was deflated a little, having let the second set slip away. After the short break, and ready to start the third, Chris came back to the court, said he had a conference call that he had to be on and couldn't reschedule and had to default the third set. It was a bittersweet victory for Phil. He was ready to play and finish the match strong, but I guess a win is a win.

On to tomorrow now. Phil plays Tom, his doubles partner, in the quarters. It will be a very tough match, but I think Phil will be more mentally prepared to play. I think the level of his competitor today took him a little by surprise. Tomorrow will be no surprise. Doubles will follow in the afternoon. All the quarterfinal matches in the 55's are great match ups. I'm looking forward to another fun day of practice, watching and cheering.

Practice Round

2010-05-05T20:41:00.003-05:00

Today was a fun day. After a quick breakfast at the hotel, we went to Cherokee Town and Country Club, which is the host club of the Atlanta Senior Invitational..aka ASI. It is a beautiful club, landscaped magnificently. Phil checked in, got his player packet and we ventured on to Bitsy Grant Tennis Center where we hooked up with Armistead Neely. We had a great 2 on 1 workout for a couple of hours. I'm so grateful the guys let me hit in with them. I really love it. I have memories of playing a junior tournament at Bitsy Grant about 38 years ago. Wow...where does the time go?! We hung around, watched some tournament matches then Phil and Tom played a practice match with Armi and his partner Brian Cheney.

It's fun to be in "Phil's world" of tournament tennis. Just as he has accompanied me to some of my events and gotten to know all the women from different age groups, I'm getting to know more and more of the guys. It's no surprise that Phil knows everyone, and they all love him. Combining our worlds has given me more friends and more contacts in tennis than I could have ever imagined.

Phil plays his first round tomorrow morning at Bitsy Grant. He and Tom have a bye in doubles and don't play until Friday. Evert Jonsson won his first round today. Alex Deeb plays tomorrow. I'll warm Phil up in the morning, then pull out my crossword and settle in.
Pictures below

Atlanta Bound

2010-05-04T08:54:00.003-05:00

Phil and I are driving to Atlanta today. He is playing in the Atlanta Senior Invitational, a prestigious Super Cat II tournament. He's never played in this event before, because in years past he had been indoors on hard courts all winter. Having spent this winter in Destin on clay, he's more than ready. I'd even venture to say we're turning Phil into a "clay court specialist"!! (only kidding) Seriously though, he is becoming more accustom to playing longer points and learning to react to the unpredictable bounces sometimes found on clay. However with the recent windy days we've had, we've all been wondering where the indoor courts are around here...oh yea, they're non existent! I'm looking forward to watching Phil play, and cheering him on. The competition will be incredibly strong...world class. I've got plenty of crosswords to work while he plays, the only thing I've found that keeps my nerves down. I still don't know how my Mom watched me all those years. I guess it's a learned art that I'm still working on.

Back from Bocage

2010-04-19T15:05:00.004-05:00

Because we had a long drive home yesterday afternoon after playing our matches, I wasn't able to report our results in a timely fashion. So here goes.......

It was a perfect day for tennis yesterday. Mostly cloudy, a little humid, and no wind. I felt good warming up and was ready for my match with Kathy. I knew we had the potential to have long drawn out points and I was prepared for that. What I wasn't prepared for was how sluggish, slow and off I was in the first set, which Kathy won 6-1 in about 20 minutes. To her credit she didn't miss, but I made tons of just plain unforced errors for seemingly no reason. I wasn't nervous or over hitting. I wasn't over confident and expecting errors from her. I was just plain awful. I didn't understand. Early in the second set we had a tough game at one all, which I broke then held to go up 3-1. From that point on, I started feeling it. Kathy started missing more and I was finding myself. I won the second set 6-2 and felt better. After the ten minute break, we started up again and I went out to a four love lead and on to win the match 6-1 in the third. I was happy with my win, but still puzzled by my play early on. I guess there are some days you just don't have it for some mysterious, unknown reason. This is a great example of why I need more match play. With my match over, it was time for a quick shower and on to watch Phil play his final.

Phil played a very tough lefty, Chris Reynard. Chris is a first year 55's player and very good. I had watched a bit of Chris' semis match, and thought that Phil had a chance to win if he played well. Chris seemed streaky at times with a big serve and a big forehand. The first set was very tight with Chris winning it with a break 6-3. Phil was able to hold on to win the second set in a tie breaker. He was struggling with his serve, which is usually one of his big weapons. His first serve percentage was very low and his second serve was suffering from a lack of confidence. Mind you, Phil hasn't played a tournament in nine months, so I think it's normal to have some confidence issues, particularly in the serve. The third set was a battle to the end. Phil finally broke Chris at 4-4 and was serving for the match at 5-4. He went down 15-40 on his serve and fought back to deuce. Phil had one match point on his serve, went for a big serve down the tee on the add side and just missed by a hair. He spun his second serve in and eventually lost the point, then the game. Chris held serve, for a 6-5 lead, then Phil lost his serve to give Chris the win. Needless to say Phil was very disappointed in his loss. More for the fact that he served so poorly and really felt like the lack of a higher serving percentage took away from him being able to attack more and put Chris on the defense. It was tough to watch him lose after such a big win the day before, but at the same time I am so proud of how Phil competed all week. It's hard to come back from a long lay off of competitive tennis and get right back in the saddle like he did. His fitness level was great and we'll both continue to work on that, as well as our serves and other weaknesses that were exposed this week.

Ricky and Susie were most hospitable and gracious. We so appreciated their hospitality, and fan support! A special thanks too to Paul Murphy, another Hidden Dunes owner who came from Hammond to watch Phil's match. We have many friends in the Baton Rouge area and it was a fun week of tennis and hanging out. Our gin rummy card game ended in a tie with the guys coming back to win the last two nights. That's okay though. After sweeping the first two nights, Susie and I knew that we had to let the guys back in the game, just so they'd keep playing with us.

Our next events are in May. I will go with Phil to Atlanta May 5-9 where he will play the Atlanta Senior Invitational, a prestigous Super Category II event for men. My next tournament will be the National Indoors in Chicago May 19-23. Until then....

Big Day at Bocage

2010-04-17T19:17:00.002-05:00

Today was a big day for both Phil and me. I was finally getting to play my first match and Phil was playing Roscoe Tanner in the semifinals. Roscoe was seeded one, and has been the tournament headliner and in the news all week. I knew Phil was nervous playing him, but I also knew if he could get past who he was playing, he would do just fine. They were late getting on because the tournament officials waited to put their match on center court for the crowd. My match was scheduled for one. I was able to see the first set which Phil won in a tiebreaker. He played really well and was able to stick to his plan of moving Roscoe around the court and body punching him. Roscoe's serve is big, but he missed quit a few first serves and second serves were certainly returnable. I could tell he was wearing down and Phil was settling in for the kill. My match was called and I wasn't able to see the finish.

I played a very nice player from Baton Rouge, Elizabeth Chasteen. I was a little nervous, which is always good, but my nerves continued on a little longer than I'd like. I felt like I was rushing and trying to do more than I really needed to. I won the first set 6-1 and we were on serve at 1-2 when I finally felt myself relax into a rhythm. I also had gotten news that Phil had won the second set 6-2. I was proud and relieved for him. I won my second set 6-2. We are both in the finals tomorrow. I play at 9:00 and Phil plays at 11:00. My final is against Kathy Vick, a good player from Lubbock, Texas. We should have a tough, hard fought match. Phil plays a big lefty from the Washington, DC area. I think he'll match up well with with his opponent. This will be the third lefty out of the four matches that he has played.

We had a great time at the LSU baseball game last night. It was a beautiful evening to be at the game. Ricky and Susie have just been wonderful as hosts. We've had great food, fun evenings of cards and great support at the matches. All our Baton Rouge/Gonzales friends have been to all our matches and cheering us on. We've got one more day to get through. Tonight Ricky and Phil have called in Clay for reinforcements at the card table. Good news is we get Wanda on our team. Girls Rule!

Two Down

2010-04-16T16:09:00.003-05:00

Two matches down for Phil and a big one tomorrow. Phil won easily today against a player he has played before. The weather conditions were much calmer with winds hardly noticeable. We were able to get a quick warm up in at Bocage, and luckily Phil's match was one of the few that went on as scheduled. Matches were quickly backing up as the day went on. There was a nice crowd of supporters to watch Phil...Billy and Susan Feazel, Conrad, Clay and Wanda Bertholot, and of course Ricky and Susie were on hand. We had lunch at the club after the match. We also scouted Phil's next opponent, Roscoe Tanner. Roscoe obviously has a stellar background with his successes in the 70's, but that was then and this is now. I feel like Phil will have no problem handling his serve, and I also think that Phil is fitter and will be able move Roscoe around the court. I have a good feeling about his match tomorrow. He plays at 9:30 and I finally get to play at 1:00. I've practiced and practiced all I can. It's time to play!

Tonight Ricky and Susie are taking us to a LSU baseball game. Very excited about that! It'll be a nice diversion from our card playing entertainment the last three nights. Phil and Ricky had taken such a drubbing the past two nights, we had to let them win last night just so they'd quit their whining!